How does Proverbs 25:22 encourage us to treat our enemies with kindness? Setting the Scene Proverbs 25:22: “For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you.” The Call to Kindness • Treating an enemy with tangible care—food when hungry, water when thirsty—is not optional; it is a direct instruction from God’s Word. • The verbs “give” and “heap” are imperatives, underscoring that kindness is an act of obedience, not a suggestion. • Scripture’s literal promise: when you meet real needs, God Himself steps in with reward. Why “Burning Coals”? • Picture an Israelite household: live coals were essential for cooking and warmth. A neighbor who had none would carry them in a pot on the head. Giving coals meant supplying life’s basic necessity. • Figuratively, unexpected kindness can awaken conscience, melting hostility and igniting repentance (see Romans 12:20). • The phrase never sanctions revenge; it portrays love that pierces through hardness. Kindness as an Act of Faith • Only faith takes God at His word that good repaid for evil will not be wasted (Hebrews 11:6). • Trust that God, not vengeance, settles accounts (Romans 12:19). • By blessing those who curse us we imitate our Father’s perfection (Matthew 5:44-48). Practical Ways to Heap Goodness 1. Speak respectfully when slandered. 2. Offer help—meals, childcare, transportation—to someone who has wronged you. 3. Celebrate an adversary’s success instead of envying it. 4. Pray for their wellbeing in specific, concrete terms (Luke 6:28). 5. Refuse gossip; protect their reputation behind their back (Proverbs 17:9). Promises Attached • “The LORD will reward you.” His reward may include: – Softened relationships (Proverbs 16:7). – Personal peace that shields the heart (Philippians 4:7). – Eternal commendation at Christ’s judgment seat (2 Corinthians 5:10). Summary Truths to Carry Forward • Literal obedience—feeding, giving drink, showing practical mercy—is God’s appointed strategy for dealing with enemies. • Kindness heaps life-giving coals, often leading a foe toward conviction and change. • Every act of grace toward an enemy is watched, recorded, and rewarded by the Lord Himself. |
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