How can Proverbs 2:14 guide our choices in friendships and influences? Setting the verse in context Proverbs 2 is Solomon’s Spirit-inspired picture of wisdom as a guardian. Verses 12-15 warn about people whose hearts bend toward darkness. Verse 14 pinpoints the attitude that makes them dangerous: “who rejoice in doing evil and delight in the perversity of evil.” (Proverbs 2:14) The warning embedded in Proverbs 2:14 • Not just wrong actions—celebrated wrong actions • A heart that “rejoices” in sin signals rebellion, not ignorance • This inner delight spreads; sin loves company (Romans 1:32) Recognizing the wrong kind of company Watch for these markers: • Entertainment that mocks righteousness and glamorizes rebellion • Humor that normalizes impurity (Ephesians 5:4) • Peer pressure that belittles conviction (Luke 23:23) • Advice that shrugs at Scripture (Isaiah 8:20) When any relationship pushes you toward these attitudes, Proverbs 2:14 is flashing a red light. Practical steps for choosing friends wisely • Filter with the Word: “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” (1 Corinthians 15:33) • Observe their delight: What makes them laugh? What do they celebrate? • Set clear boundaries early; compromise usually begins small (Proverbs 4:14-15) • Stay mission-minded: friendships should sharpen, not dull (Proverbs 27:17) • Be willing to walk away; loyalty to Christ outranks social comfort (2 Corinthians 6:14-17) Positive influences to seek out • Those who treasure truth (Psalm 119:63) • People quick to encourage obedience (Hebrews 10:24-25) • Friends who fear the Lord (Proverbs 13:20) • Mentors whose lives back their words (Philippians 3:17) Final encouragement The Lord never says, “Avoid people.” He says, “Avoid the paths that celebrate evil.” Align your closest ties with those who rejoice in righteousness, and you will find wisdom your constant companion, just as Proverbs 2 promises. |
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