How does Psalm 55:20 illustrate betrayal by those close to us? Reading the Verse Psalm 55:20 — “My companion attacks his friends; he violates his covenant.” Seeing the Heartbreak of Betrayal • “My companion” — not a stranger, but someone in David’s inner circle, stressing closeness. • “Attacks his friends” — the Hebrew picture is of stretching out the hand to wound; a deliberate move. • “Violates his covenant” — breaking a solemn pledge, whether friendship, counsel, or worship alliance. Why Betrayal Hurts So Deeply • Shared trust is shattered; deception replaces intimacy (Psalm 41:9). • Covenant language shows the sin is not merely relational but spiritual—an offense against God’s order. • Emotional pain mirrors physical assault; the soul feels “struck” (Psalm 55:4–5). Old Testament Echoes • Ahithophel turning on David (2 Samuel 15:12, 31; 16:23) embodies the verse: a trusted adviser becomes an enemy. • Joseph’s brothers “spoke peace” yet sold him (Genesis 37:4, 23–28). • Proverbs 27:6 contrasts “faithful are the wounds of a friend” with treacherous kisses, illustrating covenant breach. New Testament Fulfillment • Judas betraying Jesus with a kiss fulfills the pattern (Matthew 26:48–50; John 13:18). • Jesus’ experience proves He “has been tempted in every way, just as we are” (Hebrews 4:15). • Paul deserted by close co-workers (2 Timothy 4:16–17) shows betrayal did not end with David. Lessons for Our Walk Today • Expect that hurt can come from the closest quarters; Scripture prepares us for realism, not cynicism. • When betrayed, refuse to retaliate; leave room for God’s justice (Romans 12:17–19). • Keep commitments; our integrity reflects God’s faithful character (Psalm 15:4). • Guard your own heart: “Jesus…did not entrust Himself to them, for He knew all men” (John 2:24–25). Hope Beyond the Hurt • God hears the cry of the betrayed (Psalm 55:16–18). • Christ identifies with us; He was betrayed yet overcame (Luke 24:25-27). • Ultimately, the Lord will vindicate and restore (Psalm 55:22; 1 Peter 5:6-7). |