How should we respond when others fear us because of God's favor? Setting the Scene “Saul was afraid of David, because the LORD was with David but had departed from Saul.” Why God’s Favor Triggers Fear • God’s presence highlights spiritual deficit in others (John 3:20). • Jealousy rises when blessings shift (James 4:5). • People fear losing position, power, or approval—as Saul did (1 Samuel 18:8–9). David’s Response—A Model for Us • Steady humility – “David continued to succeed in all his ways, for the LORD was with him” (1 Samuel 18:14). – No boasting, no self-promotion. • Loyal service – He kept playing the harp for Saul (18:10). – He led Saul’s armies faithfully (18:5). • Wise conduct – “When Saul saw that David was very successful, he dreaded him. But all Israel and Judah loved David” (18:15–16). – David let godly character speak louder than words. • Respect for authority – Even when spears flew (18:11), David refused retaliation (24:6). • Trust in God’s timing – David fled only when necessary (19:10), leaving vindication to the Lord (Psalm 37:5-6). Principles for Today 1. Stay humble: credit God alone for favor (1 Corinthians 4:7). 2. Keep serving: love covers fear (1 John 4:18). 3. Act wisely: consistent integrity disarms suspicion (1 Peter 2:12). 4. Respect roles and leaders, even flawed ones (Romans 13:1-2). 5. Refuse revenge: “Do not repay anyone evil for evil… overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:17-21). 6. Trust God’s protection and promotion (Psalm 23:5; Proverbs 16:7). Supporting Snapshots • Joseph faced fearful brothers yet answered, “Do not be afraid… you meant evil against me, but God intended it for good” (Genesis 50:19-20). • Daniel’s excellent spirit frightened rivals; he kept praying, and God shut lions’ mouths (Daniel 6). • Jesus, “greater than David,” received favor, provoked fear, and responded with sacrificial love (Luke 4:22-30; John 15:13). Living It Out • Begin each day acknowledging God’s mercy rather than personal merit. • Look for specific acts of service toward those uneasy around you. • Speak graciously; let results demonstrate God’s hand. • Pray for those who fear you to experience the same divine favor. God’s favor is never for intimidation; it is a platform to display His grace. Respond like David—humble, faithful, and fearless—so that even fearful observers may eventually join the chorus of praise to the Lord. |