How should we respond when friends suggest actions contrary to God's Word? Setting the Scene: Jonadab’s Dangerous Counsel “Jonadab was a very shrewd man.” (2 Samuel 13:3) • Jonadab’s craftiness looked like wisdom, yet it lured Amnon into sin. • A friend’s suggestion can sound reasonable while quietly bypassing God’s clear commands. Recognize the Subtlety of Ungodly Advice • It often appeals to strong feelings (“You deserve this”). • It presents a shortcut (“Here’s an easy way”). • It downplays consequences (“No one will know”). • It masks rebellion with seeming care (“I’m only trying to help”). Scripture’s Warnings About Bad Company • “Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked.” (Psalm 1:1) • “Bad company corrupts good character.” (1 Corinthians 15:33) • “He who walks with the wise will become wise.” (Proverbs 13:20) Practical Responses When Tempted by Friends • Compare the suggestion with explicit Scripture—never your feelings. • Say a clear, respectful “no” as soon as you see the conflict. • Physically remove yourself if necessary; distance protects purity (2 Timothy 2:22). • Seek a mature believer’s counsel before acting (Proverbs 11:14). • Pray for courage and the friend’s repentance—truth and love go together. Cultivate God-Honoring Friendships • Choose companions who spur you toward Christlikeness (Hebrews 10:24). • Invite accountability; true friends will ask hard questions in love. • Be the kind of friend who points others back to God’s Word every time. Takeaway When a friend suggests anything that sidesteps Scripture, loyalty to God must outrank loyalty to people. Reject the counsel, cling to truth, and surround yourself with friends who do the same. |
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