What are the potential consequences of associating with a "hot-tempered man"? Key Verse “Do not make friends with an angry man, and do not associate with a hot-tempered man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.” (Proverbs 22:24-25) Why God Issues This Warning • Anger is contagious; we tend to imitate the attitudes of those we spend time with. • A hot temper creates an atmosphere where rash words and actions feel normal. • God desires peace and self-control to mark His people (Galatians 5:22-23). Potential Consequences • You “learn his ways” – Habits of impatience and sharp speech start to feel acceptable. – Harsh responses slip into your own relationships. • You become “entangled in a snare” – Conflict multiplies, and you’re drawn into arguments that were never yours. – Reputations suffer; others associate you with unrest and volatility. – Opportunities close as people avoid unpredictable company. • Emotional overload – Constant tension steals joy and raises stress levels (Proverbs 29:22). – Anger-driven environments hinder clear thinking and wise decision-making. • Spiritual dullness – “Man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness that God desires” (James 1:20). – Fellowship with God suffers when bitterness and strife crowd the heart (Ephesians 4:30-31). Supporting Scriptures • Proverbs 29:22 – “An angry man stirs up dissension, and a hot-tempered man abounds in transgression.” • Proverbs 15:18 – “A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger calms dispute.” • 1 Corinthians 15:33 – “Bad company corrupts good character.” • Proverbs 19:19 – “A man of great anger must pay the penalty; if you rescue him, you will have to do so again.” A Better Path to Choose • Seek companions marked by patience and gentleness (2 Timothy 2:24). • Cultivate environments of peace: “Pursue peace with everyone” (Hebrews 12:14). • Practice quick listening, slow speaking, and slow anger (James 1:19). • When faced with another’s wrath, respond with a soft answer (Proverbs 15:1). Staying clear of unchecked anger keeps your heart free, your witness bright, and your walk with Christ unhindered. |
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