How can Romans 12:20 guide our response to those who wrong us? Key Verse “But ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head.’” (Romans 12:20) What the Verse Says - We are commanded to meet physical needs—food and drink—for those who wrong us. - The motive is not revenge but kindness that awakens conscience (“burning coals”). - The directive comes immediately after “Beloved, do not avenge yourselves” (Romans 12:19). Why This Matters - Obedience shifts the battle from personal retaliation to God’s righteous justice. - Kindness exposes evil without adopting evil’s methods. - Tangible acts of good make spiritual truth visible. Practical Ways to Live It Out - Identify real needs: a meal, a ride, childcare, a kind word. - Respond promptly rather than waiting for the offender to ask. - Speak respectfully; tone affirms the message. - Pray for the offender privately, even while serving them publicly. - Refuse gossip; silence can be one of the “cups of cold water” you give. Fuel From Other Scriptures - Proverbs 25:21-22 — Source of Paul’s quotation; God’s wisdom is consistent. - Matthew 5:44 — “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” - Luke 6:27-28 — “Do good to those who hate you…bless those who curse you.” - Romans 12:17 — “Do not repay anyone evil for evil.” - 1 Peter 2:23 — Christ “entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.” What Happens When We Obey - Consciences are stirred; some enemies become friends. - The watching world sees the gospel in action (John 13:35). - Bitterness loses its grip on our hearts. - God’s justice, not ours, has the final word, and His peace guards us (Philippians 4:7). |
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