Second son's response on true repentance?
What does the second son's response teach about true repentance and action?

Setting the Scene in Matthew 21:30

• Jesus is confronting the religious leaders in the temple courts.

• He tells of a father asking two sons to work in his vineyard.

• The second son replies: “Then the man went to the second son and told him the same. ‘I will, sir,’ he said. But he did not go.” (Matthew 21:30)


The Second Son’s Words: A Polished Promise

• Respectful address — “Sir.”

• Quick affirmation — “I will.”

• No follow-through — “But he did not go.”

• Outward compliance masks inward rebellion.


True Repentance: Why Words Alone Fall Short

• Repentance is a change of heart that produces a change of direction (Acts 26:20).

• Empty words deceive others and ourselves (James 1:22).

• God looks beyond polite speech to the obedience that should follow (1 Samuel 15:22).


Action: The Litmus Test of Genuine Change

• Faith without works is dead (James 2:17).

• “Why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ but not do what I say?” (Luke 6:46)

• A true son reflects the Father’s will through deeds, not mere declarations (John 14:15).


Warnings Against Empty Profession

1 John 2:4 — Claiming knowledge of God while ignoring His commands brands one “a liar.”

Titus 1:16 — “They profess to know God, but by their actions they deny Him.”

Matthew 23:27 — Whitewashed tombs: attractive outside, dead inside.


Marks of Authentic Repentance and Obedience

• Quickness to act, not to promise (Proverbs 14:23).

• Persistence: doing the Father’s will even when unnoticed (Colossians 3:23).

• Humility: admitting past reluctance and turning to obey (seen in the first son of the parable).


Living It Out Today

• Examine our commitments: Do our calendars match our confessions?

• Replace polite refusals or hollow vows with responsive, timely obedience.

• Seek the Spirit’s power to align desires with deeds (Philippians 2:13).

How does Matthew 21:30 challenge our understanding of obedience to God?
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