Servant's choice: loyalty and love lesson?
What does the servant's choice in Exodus 21:5 teach about loyalty and love?

Setting the Scene

Exodus 21:2-6 describes a Hebrew servant who could leave after six years of service. Instead, he may make a deliberate, lifelong commitment to remain. Exodus 21:5 records his words: “But if the servant declares, ‘I love my master… and do not want to go free,’”


The Servant’s Declaration: A Heartfelt Choice

• Voluntary, not forced—love motivates the decision.

• Public—made before judges and sealed by piercing his ear to the doorpost (v. 6).

• Permanent—“servant for life,” showing loyalty that outlasts circumstance.


Lessons on Loyalty

• Loyalty grows from gratitude; six years of benevolent care convinced the servant his master was worth serving forever.

• True loyalty is expressed in action, not mere words—he stands before witnesses and accepts a visible mark.

• Loyalty embraces permanence; the servant forsakes personal freedom for the security of belonging. Compare Ruth’s pledge to Naomi (Ruth 1:16-17) and believers’ call to present themselves as “living sacrifices” (Romans 12:1).


Lessons on Love

• Love is relational: “I love my master, my wife, and children.” He treasures people over independence.

• Love is self-sacrificing; he yields possibilities of new ventures in favor of faithful presence.

• Love willingly submits; just as Jesus “humbled Himself” (Philippians 2:8), the servant humbly chooses continued service.

• Love unites loyalty and affection; he stays not from duty alone but from heartfelt devotion.


New Testament Echoes

• Jesus models the greater Servant who chose the cross out of love (John 10:17-18).

• Paul calls believers “bond-servants of Christ” (Galatians 1:10), inviting the same willing allegiance.

• Ear-piercing at the doorpost prefigures hearts “circumcised” to hear and obey (Jeremiah 31:33; James 1:22).


Personal Application

• Reflect on God’s kindness that inspires voluntary, lifetime commitment.

• Let gratitude fuel steadfast loyalty in marriage, church, and daily work.

• Wear your allegiance openly—actions, words, and lifestyle that mark you as Christ’s servant.

• Choose love over autonomy, knowing true freedom is found in joyful submission to the Master who first loved you (1 John 4:19).

How does Exodus 21:5 illustrate the importance of commitment in our relationships?
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