How can we show kindness to family, as Joseph did in Genesis 43:29? Scripture Focus: Genesis 43:29 “When Joseph looked up and saw his brother Benjamin, his mother’s son, he said, ‘Is this your youngest brother, the one you told me about?’ Then he declared, ‘May God be gracious to you, my son.’ ” Observing Joseph’s Kindness • Recognition: Joseph looks up, locks eyes with Benjamin, and speaks directly to him—affirming his identity. • Tender words: “May God be gracious to you” is not small talk; it is a heartfelt blessing. • Unforced emotion: Earlier verses show Joseph weeping privately (v. 30). He lets genuine affection inform his actions. • Provision: In the meal that follows (vv. 31–34), Joseph gives Benjamin a fivefold portion—meeting a need and delighting him lavishly. Timeless Principles • Kindness begins with seeing people, not just being near them. • Blessing spoken aloud releases encouragement and points family back to God. • Real love is felt; letting others witness appropriate emotion builds trust. • Generosity attests that relationships matter more than resources. Practical Ways to Show Kindness to Family • Use names and eye contact; put devices down and give full attention. • Speak Scripture-based encouragement: “The LORD bless you and keep you” (Numbers 6:24). • Share emotions honestly—joy, concern, even tears—so relatives know they are valued. • Meet tangible needs: a meal, a ride, financial help, or a thoughtful gift. • Forgive quickly, refusing to rehearse past wrongs (Genesis 45:5; Ephesians 4:32). • Celebrate victories and milestones with overflow, not minimum effort. Encouragement from Related Scriptures • Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and tender-hearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • Colossians 3:12 – “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” • 1 Thessalonians 5:15 – “Make sure that no one repays evil for evil, but always pursue what is good for one another and for all people.” • Proverbs 17:17 – “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” • Galatians 6:10 – “Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to the family of faith.” Living It Out Daily • Begin the day asking God to open your eyes, as Joseph’s were opened, to each family member’s worth. • Set a goal to offer at least one spoken blessing every day. • Plan purposeful generosity—budget time and money so you can respond immediately when a relative has need. • Keep short accounts: when conflict arises, forgive and restore relationship quickly. • Let your home showcase God’s grace so that, like Joseph’s brothers, family members taste lavish love and are drawn closer to the Lord. |
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