How does Song of Solomon 7:12 encourage intentionality in nurturing marital relationships? Cherishing the Early Hours Song of Solomon 7:12—“Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom—there I will give you my love.” • “Let us go early” highlights priority—married couples are urged to schedule focused time together before the day’s distractions crowd in (cf. Mark 1:35; Psalm 5:3). • “Early” also conveys eagerness: the bride and groom are excited about intentionally pursuing one another, not drifting into routine. Inspecting the Vineyard • Vineyards need regular tending; the couple chooses a deliberate check-up on the “state of their garden.” • Practical marital parallel: – Periodic conversations about spiritual, emotional, and physical health. – Honest evaluation of communication patterns, finances, parenting, intimacy (Proverbs 27:23). – Willingness to prune habits that choke growth (Hebrews 12:1). Looking for Buds, Blossoms, and Fruit • Buds = early signs of potential growth; nurture them. • Blossoms = present beauty; celebrate current blessings (Philippians 4:8). • Pomegranates = ripened fruit; enjoy mature seasons of love (Galatians 5:22-23). • Intentional observation prevents neglect and fosters gratitude. “There I Will Give You My Love” • Physical intimacy is planned, not left to chance (1 Corinthians 7:3-5). • Love is expressed in a specific setting—showing thoughtfulness toward atmosphere, timing, and mutual preference (Ephesians 5:28-29). • Commitment: love is not only felt but given—an active choice (Colossians 3:14). Practical Steps for Today 1. Schedule a regular “vineyard walk”—a coffee date, evening stroll, or weekend retreat. 2. Ask: Where are new buds (emerging interests, goals) we can nurture? 3. Identify current blossoms to rejoice over—answered prayers, progress in unity. 4. Celebrate fruit—milestones, victories, anniversaries—with words, gifts, or shared experiences. 5. Guard that time from intrusion; treat it as covenant maintenance (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:6). Key Takeaways • Intentionality prevents drift and deepens delight. • Regular assessment plus celebration keeps the marriage garden flourishing. • Planned, prioritized affection mirrors God’s design for covenant love. |
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