What steps should we take after warning a divisive person, according to Titus 3:11? Setting the Scene • Paul has just instructed, “Reject a divisive man after a first and second admonition” (Titus 3:10). • Verse 11 tells us why—and, by implication, how we should move forward once those two warnings have been given. What Titus 3:11 Actually Says “Titus 3:11 — ‘knowing that such a person is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned.’ ” Step-by-Step Response After Two Warnings • Recognize the Person’s Spiritual Condition – Scripture labels him “warped” (twisted from the truth) and “sinful” (actively choosing rebellion). – His own behavior has brought “self-condemnation”; he has judged himself by refusing correction. • Withdraw Fellowship and Influence – The Greek verb underlying “reject” (v. 10) carries the idea of avoiding, shunning, or having nothing more to do with him. – No more platform for his divisive talk; no further debates that only fuel strife. • Protect the Unity of the Body – Guard the flock from the leaven of discord (Galatians 5:9; 1 Corinthians 5:6). – Refusing further engagement sends a clear signal that divisiveness will not be tolerated. • Maintain Personal Purity – Distance keeps you from being drawn into sinful attitudes (2 Timothy 2:16-17). – Continue in sound doctrine and good works (Titus 3:8). • Keep the Door of Repentance Open—But on His Side – Treat him as one who must come to his senses and return (2 Timothy 2:25-26). – You do not pursue; he must initiate genuine repentance. Why These Steps Matter • They honor the authority of Scripture, which sets clear boundaries for fellowship. • They protect the witness of the church before a watching world. • They spare the faithful unnecessary turmoil and distraction from the gospel mission. Related Passages That Strengthen the Principle • Matthew 18:15-17 — final step is treating the unrepentant brother “as a pagan or a tax collector.” • Romans 16:17 — “keep away from them.” • 2 Thessalonians 3:6, 14 — “keep away… do not associate with him, so that he may be ashamed.” • 2 Timothy 3:5 — “Avoid such people.” Personal Application Today • If you have carried out two clear, loving warnings, step back. You are free from further obligation to convince or debate. • Uphold unity by limiting the divisive person’s influence, both in person and online. • Continue to exemplify gentleness and truth, ready to receive him should genuine repentance occur. |
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