What steps precede rejecting someone as described in Titus 3:10? Framing the Passage • Titus 3:9-11 sets the scene. Verses 9 and 11 show the goal: protect the church from pointless quarrels and the damage a divisive spirit can cause. • Verse 10: “Reject a divisive man after a first and second admonition.” Who Is in View? • “Divisive man” (Greek: hairetikos) = one who stubbornly promotes factions or heresy, refusing to submit to sound teaching (cf. 1 Timothy 6:3-5). • Not an honest questioner but a person who splits, stirs, and will not be corrected. Step 1: Recognize the Problem • Compare the person’s words and conduct with Scripture (Acts 17:11). • Confirm the pattern: habitual contention, not a single lapse (Galatians 5:19-21 lists “dissensions, factions” as works of the flesh). Step 2: First Admonition • Approach privately and directly, aiming for restoration (Matthew 18:15; Galatians 6:1). • Use Scripture to correct (2 Timothy 3:16). • Tone: gentle but firm (2 Timothy 2:24-25). • Clarify consequences if there is no repentance. Step 3: Second Admonition • If divisiveness continues, involve additional witnesses or leaders (Matthew 18:16; 1 Timothy 5:19-20). • Reiterate the call to repentance and unity (Ephesians 4:3). • Document the appeal so the process is clear and fair (2 Corinthians 13:1). Step 4: Final Rejection • “Reject” (paraiteomai) = refuse association or partnership, cease giving platform (cf. 2 Thessalonians 3:6,14-15). • Purpose: protect the flock and provoke the offender to sober self-reflection (Titus 3:11; 1 Corinthians 5:5). • Maintain personal love while withdrawing fellowship—treat “as a pagan or tax collector” (Matthew 18:17) yet keep evangelistic concern. Guiding Principles Throughout • Seek repentance, not victory (James 5:19-20). • Act under church authority, not as a lone ranger (Hebrews 13:17). • Guard your own heart from pride or bitterness (1 Corinthians 10:12). Why These Steps Matter • They mirror God’s patience—He “is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish” (2 Peter 3:9). • They uphold the purity and unity of Christ’s body (Ephesians 5:27). • They demonstrate that truth and love walk together (Ephesians 4:15). |
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