How can we apply Rehoboam's approach to decision-making in our daily walk? Pause Before You Speak “Rehoboam answered, ‘Return to me in three days.’ So the people departed.” (2 Chronicles 10:5) • Hasty words create lasting wounds; a planned pause opens space for prayer and reflection (James 1:19; Psalm 27:14). • Build a habit of taking even “small” choices to the Lord before responding. Seek Counsel from the Mature “Then King Rehoboam consulted with the elders who had served his father Solomon…” (2 Chronicles 10:6) • Seasoned believers carry tested insight (Proverbs 1:5; 15:22). • Invite pastors, mentors, and older saints to speak into your plans; their experience balances your perspective (Titus 2:1-2). Compare Advice with Scripture • Every opinion—no matter how well-meant—must align with the written Word (Acts 17:11). • “All Scripture is God-breathed and profitable…” (2 Timothy 3:16-17). • If counsel contradicts clear teaching, discard it—no matter who offers it (Isaiah 8:20). Guard Against Peer Pressure “But he rejected the advice of the elders…and consulted the young men who had grown up with him…” (2 Chronicles 10:8) • Friends can reinforce pride or wisdom; choose companions who fear the Lord (Proverbs 13:20). • Resist echo chambers that merely affirm your preferences (Exodus 23:2; 1 Corinthians 15:33). Check Motives, Not Just Methods • Rehoboam’s harsh answer sprang from pride and a desire to assert control (James 3:16). • Let humility shape decisions: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride…” (Philippians 2:3-4). Remember Who Ultimately Reigns “So the king did not listen to the people, for this turn of events came from God…” (2 Chronicles 10:15) • Even our missteps fall within God’s sovereign plan (Proverbs 16:9; Romans 8:28). • Walk in faithfulness, yet rest in His overarching rule (Psalm 33:11). Everyday Takeaways • Slow down; build a pause into your decision rhythm. • Pray and search Scripture before giving an answer. • Seek seasoned, godly counsel. • Weigh advice against the Word. • Reject flattery and echo chambers. • Keep motives humble—aim to serve, not impress. • Trust the Lord to weave even flawed choices into His larger purpose. |
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