How can we honor our parents as commanded in Exodus 20:12? Foundational Verse “Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.” (Exodus 20:12) What “Honor” Means - Hebrew kabed: to give weight, prize highly, treat as significant - An inner attitude (respect, gratitude) expressed in outward actions (speech, care) Why This Command Matters - God’s stated will for every life stage (Ephesians 6:1-3) - First command with a promise of well-being and longevity - Trains us to honor all rightful authority (1 Peter 2:17) Ways to Honor in Childhood & Youth - Cheerful, prompt obedience (Colossians 3:20) - Listening without arguing (Proverbs 1:8) - Respectful words and tone (Proverbs 30:17) - Grateful acknowledgment of daily provision Ways to Honor in Adulthood - Maintain respectful speech; avoid sarcasm or contempt (Proverbs 20:20) - Seek and weigh their counsel (Proverbs 23:22) - Provide practical, financial, and emotional care as they age (1 Timothy 5:4, 8) - Protect their dignity publicly - Remember anniversaries and express thanks - Support their walk with God—pray, read Scripture, worship together When Honoring Is Hard - Honor the position even if behavior is flawed (Matthew 15:3-6) - Set boundaries without bitterness; never join in sin (Acts 5:29) - Forgive as Christ forgave (Ephesians 4:32) - Seek wise counsel where abuse or danger exists Christ’s Perfect Model - Submitted to earthly parents (Luke 2:51) - Ensured His mother’s care from the cross (John 19:26-27) - Empowers us to obey through His Spirit (Philippians 2:5) Blessings Tied to Honoring - Personal well-being and longevity (Ephesians 6:3) - Stronger, healthier families (Proverbs 17:6) - Enjoyment of God’s favor in the land He gives (Deuteronomy 5:16) Putting It Into Practice Today - Speak a sincere word of thanks - Schedule regular calls or visits - Run an errand or handle a task for them - Pray daily for their needs - Share a memory that affirms their impact |
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