What is the meaning of Exodus 20:17? You shall not covet your neighbor’s house • The Lord begins with real estate because it represents security, status, and financial stability. • Coveting turns a neighbor’s blessing into personal discontent, a violation of the call to “be content with what you have” (Hebrews 13:5). • Scripture affirms that everything belongs to God anyway (Psalm 24:1); holding that truth loosens envy’s grip. • Paul’s contented heart—“I have learned to be content regardless of my circumstances” (Philippians 4:11-12)—models the opposite spirit of coveting. • Instead of longing for another’s house, believers steward what God entrusts, trusting Him for daily bread (Matthew 6:11). You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife • Desire directed toward another’s spouse is the seed of adultery; Jesus equates lustful looking with adultery in the heart (Matthew 5:28). • Proverbs warns, “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty” (Proverbs 6:25); coveting a spouse corrodes marriages and families. • Joseph’s refusal of Potiphar’s wife—“How could I commit such a great sin against God?” (Genesis 39:9)—illustrates fleeing temptation rather than nurturing it. • God’s design for marriage calls each husband or wife to cherish the covenant already given (Ephesians 5:25-33; Malachi 2:15-16). or his manservant or maidservant • In ancient Israel, servants represented labor, productivity, and social standing. Craving another’s workforce still surfaces today through jealousy over influence, employees, or teams. • The Lord grants gifts and positions according to His wisdom (1 Corinthians 12:11). • Instead of resentment, believers celebrate another’s success, remembering: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord” (Colossians 3:23). • Seeking advantage by prying away someone else’s workers violates the spirit of loving one’s neighbor (Romans 13:9-10). or his ox or donkey • Oxen and donkeys were essential tools—agricultural equipment and transportation rolled into one. • Coveting today may focus on vehicles, technology, or any resource that seems to give another person an edge. • Scripture cautions, “Watch out and guard yourselves against every form of greed” (Luke 12:15), and reminds that “the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil” (1 Timothy 6:10). • The same law also requires care for a neighbor’s animals (Deuteronomy 22:1-4), reinforcing that what aids a neighbor should prompt help, not envy. or anything that belongs to your neighbor • The final phrase throws a wide net, covering possessions, opportunities, talents—anything. • Paul testifies that the command “Do not covet” awakened his conscience (Romans 7:7-8); coveting exposes inner idols. • James maps the trajectory: “Each one is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desires. Then desire, when it has conceived, gives birth to sin” (James 1:14-15). • The Spirit forms a new appetite—“Turn my heart toward Your testimonies and not toward covetous gain” (Psalm 119:36)—producing gratitude and generosity (2 Corinthians 9:11). summary Exodus 20:17 confronts the hidden battleground of the heart. Whether the object is a house, spouse, staff, tools, or any possession, coveting mistrusts God’s provision and poisons love for neighbor. The antidote is contentment rooted in God’s faithful care, gratitude for His gifts, and a Spirit-led joy in others’ blessings. |