What is the meaning of Genesis 24:55? But her brother and mother said “ But her brother and mother said ” (Genesis 24:55a) • The spokesman is Laban, Rebekah’s brother (v. 29), with their mother in agreement. Their father Bethuel stays silent, perhaps due to age or deference (compare v. 50). • Family involvement in marriage negotiations was normal (Genesis 34:11-12; Judges 14:2-3). • Their words reveal an affectionate concern, yet also a possible hesitation to release Rebekah so quickly after God’s will had been made clear (v. 48). Let the girl remain with us “ Let the girl remain with us ” (v. 55b) • “Girl” underscores Rebekah’s youth and cherished place in the household (Genesis 24:16). • Staying would provide time for farewells, celebration, and emotional adjustment (Genesis 31:55). • It also hints at a tug-of-war between obedience to the Lord’s revealed plan and human attachment (Matthew 10:37). ten days or so “ ten days or so ” (v. 55c) • The phrase marks a definite but brief period. Ten can symbolize completeness (Exodus 12:3-6; Daniel 1:12-14). • A small delay might seem reasonable, yet servants of God must guard against subtle postponements that dull obedience (Luke 9:59-62). After that, she may go. “ After that, she may go ” (v. 55d) • The family ultimately consents but on their timetable, not God’s. Delayed obedience is still disobedience. • Abraham’s servant resists delay (vv. 56-58), mirroring Abraham’s own promptness (Genesis 17:23; 22:3). • Rebekah’s decisive “I will go” (v. 58) exemplifies faith-filled submission, foreshadowing believers who leave all to follow God’s call (Hebrews 11:8-10). summary Rebekah’s relatives loved her and wanted a brief farewell, yet their request risked stalling God’s clearly revealed plan. The scene contrasts human hesitation with the necessity of immediate obedience. True faith answers God’s call without delay, trusting that His timing, not ours, is perfect. |
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