What is the meaning of Proverbs 6:1? My son - “My son” signals Solomon’s warm, parental appeal (Proverbs 1:8; 3:1). - The phrase reminds us that wisdom is meant to be received in the intimacy of family, where love frames correction (Proverbs 4:1–4). - God speaks to believers the same way: as a Father guiding His children (Hebrews 12:5–6). - The tender tone prepares the listener to accept a hard warning about financial entanglements. if you have put up security for your neighbor - “Put up security” involves guaranteeing someone else’s debt—becoming legally responsible if they fail (Proverbs 11:15). - Scripture consistently cautions against this practice: • Proverbs 17:18—“A man lacking judgment strikes hands in pledge and puts up security for his neighbor.” • Proverbs 22:26–27 warns that even one’s bed could be taken if the debtor defaults. - The lesson: compassion should never bypass prudence. Love your neighbor (Leviticus 19:18) yet stay within wise boundaries so your own household is not placed at risk (1 Timothy 5:8). if you have struck hands in pledge with a stranger - “Struck hands” pictures a public handshake that seals the agreement (Job 17:3). - A “stranger” heightens the danger: you may know little of his integrity or ability to repay (Proverbs 20:16). - God calls for generosity (Luke 6:34–35), but suretyship is different; it swaps stewardship for presumption, violating the principle of owing no one anything but love (Romans 13:8). - By highlighting both “neighbor” and “stranger,” the verse covers every potential debtor—friend or unknown—affirming that the warning is universal. summary Proverbs 6:1 lovingly but firmly warns believers to avoid guaranteeing someone else’s debt. While charity is commended, assuming another’s financial liability invites unnecessary risk and compromises personal stewardship. Wisdom means helping others without signing away the resources God has entrusted to you. |
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