How can we discern when a debate becomes "unprofitable and worthless"? The Heart of Titus 3:9 “But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, arguments, and quarrels about the Law, because they are unprofitable and worthless.” (Titus 3:9) Paul gives two clear markers: • “Unprofitable” – brings no spiritual benefit, produces no fruit (cf. Matthew 7:17-18). • “Worthless” – empty, without lasting value (cf. 1 Corinthians 3:12-15). Why Some Arguments Turn Toxic • They center on speculative matters rather than on clear revelation (1 Timothy 1:3-4). • They feed pride and a craving for recognition (1 Timothy 6:4-5). • They stir strife instead of building peace (Proverbs 15:18; James 3:16). • They shift focus from Christ to human cleverness (Colossians 2:8). Discerning the Warning Signs A debate is sliding into the “unprofitable and worthless” category when: • Scripture is quoted merely as ammunition rather than as light (2 Timothy 2:15). • Personal attacks replace honest reasoning (Proverbs 18:2). • The fruit is agitation, not edification (Ephesians 4:29). • Time and energy that could serve the gospel are drained (Ephesians 5:15-16). • The goal shifts from seeking truth to scoring points (Philippians 2:3). Practical Check-List Before Engaging Ask: • Will this conversation exalt Christ and clarify the gospel? (1 Corinthians 1:23-24) • Is the matter plainly taught in Scripture or is it speculative? (Deuteronomy 29:29) • Am I speaking in love, aiming for the other’s good? (Ephesians 4:15) • Can I discuss without bitterness or envy? (James 3:14) • If no agreement is reached, will fellowship still stand? (Romans 14:1-4) Maintaining Conviction Without Combative Spirit • Hold firmly to truth while showing gentleness (2 Timothy 2:24-25). • Distinguish between essential doctrines and disputable opinions (Romans 14:5). • Use clear, gracious words seasoned with salt (Colossians 4:6). • Pray for the other person even while disagreeing (Luke 6:28). When to Walk Away • Repeated refusal to heed Scripture (Titus 3:10-11). • Continual stirring of division (Romans 16:17). • A hardened, scoffing attitude (Proverbs 9:7-8). • The conversation obstructs gospel ministry (Acts 13:45-46). A Better Use of Our Words • Share the gospel of grace (Titus 3:4-7). • Encourage and build up fellow believers (1 Thessalonians 5:11). • Defend truth humbly, trusting God for results (1 Peter 3:15-16). Staying alert to these principles keeps debates fruitful, protects unity, and honors the Lord who calls His people to speak “what is good for building up” (Ephesians 4:29). |
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