Who else in the Bible faced betrayal?
What other biblical figures experienced betrayal similar to Psalm 41:9's account?

Understanding Betrayal in Psalm 41:9

“Even my close friend in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted up his heel against me.”

David mourns the wounding shock of betrayal by a trusted companion. Scripture shows that this heartbreaking experience is shared by many of God’s servants.


Joseph and His Brothers

Genesis 37:26–27—“Come, let us sell him to the Ishmaelites….”

• His own brothers, bound by blood and shared meals, sold him for silver. Joseph’s later words echo the pain: “I was indeed stolen from the land of the Hebrews” (Genesis 40:15).


Samson and Delilah

Judges 16:18–20—Delilah “lulled him to sleep on her lap” then signaled the Philistines.

• Betrayal came at the hands of someone who shared intimacy and table fellowship with him.


David and Ahithophel

2 Samuel 15:31—“Ahithophel is among the conspirators with Absalom.”

Psalm 55:13–14 (a companion psalm): “But it is you, a man like myself… We shared sweet fellowship together.” Ahithophel, once David’s counselor, turned and plotted his downfall.


Jesus and Judas Iscariot

John 13:18—Jesus quotes Psalm 41:9 directly.

John 13:26–27—“Then Satan entered Judas….”

Luke 22:47–48—“Judas, are you betraying the Son of Man with a kiss?” The ultimate fulfillment of David’s lament.


Job and His Friends

Job 19:19—“All my close friends detest me, and those I love have turned against me.”

• Companions who should have comforted him instead accused and condemned.


Jeremiah and the Men of Anathoth

Jeremiah 12:6—“Your own brothers—your own family—even they have betrayed you; they have cried aloud after you.”

• The prophet’s hometown relatives plotted to silence him.


Paul and Demas (and Others)

2 Timothy 4:10—“Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me….”

2 Timothy 4:16—“At my first defense no one stood with me; everyone deserted me.”

• Paul felt the sting of abandonment by co-workers once counted as friends.


Key Takeaways

• Betrayal is not new; it runs through redemptive history.

• God records these accounts to assure His people that He sees, understands, and ultimately vindicates the righteous.

• The Lord Himself experienced the deepest betrayal, ensuring He can sympathize with all who suffer it (Hebrews 4:15).

How should Christians respond when betrayed by close friends, as in Psalm 41:9?
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