Why did the servant hesitate to leave?
Why did the servant question leaving without the woman in Genesis 24:5?

Setting

• Abraham, settled in Canaan, charges his chief servant to find a wife for Isaac from Abraham’s extended family in Mesopotamia (Genesis 24:3-4).

• The servant will travel some 500 miles with gifts and camels, yet Abraham insists Isaac must not return to Mesopotamia (Genesis 24:6-8).


The Servant’s Question

“‘Suppose the woman is unwilling to come back with me to this land. Should I then take your son back to the land you came from?’ ” (Genesis 24:5).


Reasons Behind the Question

• Practical foresight

– The servant recognizes a very real possibility: a young woman may hesitate to leave home forever for an unseen husband.

– Ancient journeys were dangerous; the servant must plan, “What if?”

• Desire for precise obedience

– He wants to carry out Abraham’s commission without alteration (compare Genesis 24:9).

– Clarifying any gray area now prevents missteps later.

• Respect for the woman’s will

– Scripture never portrays Rebekah as coerced; later she is asked, “Will you go with this man?” and she answers, “I will go” (Genesis 24:58).

– By raising the question, the servant acknowledges her freedom to decide.


Why Not Take Isaac There? Covenant Implications

• The land promise

– God said, “To your offspring I will give this land” (Genesis 12:7; 13:14-17). Isaac must remain where God’s promise rests.

– Returning could imply doubt in God’s declared plan.

• Separation from idolatry

– Mesopotamia still housed Abraham’s kin yet practiced idolatry (Joshua 24:2).

– Keeping Isaac in Canaan guards him from mingling with pagan customs (cf. Deuteronomy 7:3-4).

• Lineage and mission

– God’s redemptive line points toward staying in the promised land, not retreating (Genesis 26:2-5).


Faith and Prudence Together

• Abraham’s faith: “The LORD will send His angel before you” (Genesis 24:7).

• The servant’s prudence: “What if she won’t come?”

• Scripture commends both—trust in God’s guidance while planning responsibly (Proverbs 16:9; Nehemiah 2:7-8).


Lessons for Today

• Clarify assignments—ask questions up front to avoid disobedience later.

• Respect others’ God-given liberty; genuine faith never forces.

• Hold to God’s calling without compromise; don’t retreat to former territory when the promise lies ahead (Hebrews 10:35-39).

• Blend faith with practical planning; both honor the Lord (James 2:22).

Thus, the servant’s question was not doubt of God’s power but a careful, obedient, and respectful response to Abraham’s mandate and God’s covenant plan.

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