Why wait on the Lord to heal grievances?
Why is waiting on the Lord crucial for overcoming personal grievances?

Key Verse: Proverbs 20:22

“Do not say, ‘I will avenge this evil!’ Wait on the LORD, and He will deliver you.”


Why Waiting Matters More Than Striking Back

• Retaliation replaces God’s justice with our own limited perspective.

• Waiting signals trust that the Lord both sees the wrong and has power to set it right.

• The verse promises deliverance, not merely relief—God actively rescues, He doesn’t just soothe feelings.


What Happens When We Rush to Avenge

• We step outside God-ordained authority (Romans 12:19).

• We stir up anger that “does not bring about the righteousness that God desires” (James 1:20).

• We risk multiplying conflict, creating new grievances rather than resolving the old.


Blessings Attached to Waiting

• God’s vindication: “He will deliver you.”

• Renewed strength while we wait (Isaiah 40:31).

• Inheritance of peace and stability (Psalm 37:7-9).

• Christ-like witness—following the pattern of Jesus “who entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly” (1 Peter 2:23).


Practical Ways to Wait on the Lord

1. Pause and pray before reacting.

2. Recall specific promises (keep verses handy).

3. Surrender the timeline; let God decide when and how deliverance arrives.

4. Do good in the meantime (Romans 12:20-21).

5. Seek wise counsel to stay accountable in patience.


Supporting Scriptures

Romans 12:19 – Leave room for God’s wrath.

Psalm 37:7-9 – Be still; refrain from anger.

Isaiah 40:31 – Strength renewed in waiting.

1 Peter 2:23 – Christ’s example of non-retaliation.

Matthew 5:44 – Love and pray for enemies.


Takeaway for Today

Waiting on the Lord is not passive; it is an active choice to trust His perfect justice, gain His strength, and reflect His character. Personal grievances lose their grip when we let God be both Judge and Deliverer.

How does Romans 12:19 reinforce the message in Proverbs 20:22?
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