Becoming a Parent
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Introduction

Becoming a parent is a significant milestone in the life of an individual, often seen as a divine blessing and responsibility. The Bible provides numerous insights into the role and responsibilities of parents, emphasizing the importance of raising children in accordance with God's teachings. This entry explores the biblical perspective on parenthood, highlighting key scriptures and themes.

Biblical Foundation

The concept of parenthood is deeply rooted in the creation narrative. In Genesis 1:28 , God commands Adam and Eve, "Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it." This directive establishes procreation as part of God's design for humanity. Parenthood is thus seen as a fulfillment of God's command and a participation in His creative work.

The Blessing of Children

Children are consistently portrayed as a blessing from the Lord. Psalm 127:3-5 states, "Children are indeed a heritage from the LORD, and the fruit of the womb is His reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them." This passage underscores the value and joy that children bring to a family, likening them to arrows that provide strength and purpose.

Parental Responsibilities

The Bible places significant emphasis on the responsibilities of parents to nurture and instruct their children in the ways of the Lord. Proverbs 22:6 advises, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." This verse highlights the importance of early spiritual and moral education, suggesting that a strong foundation will guide children throughout their lives.

Ephesians 6:4 further instructs, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." This passage emphasizes the need for a balanced approach to parenting, combining discipline with loving guidance.

The Role of the Family

The family unit is central to God's plan for humanity, serving as the primary context for spiritual growth and development. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 commands, "These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." This directive highlights the continuous and pervasive nature of spiritual instruction within the family.

Challenges and Faith

While parenthood is a blessing, it also presents challenges that require faith and reliance on God. The Bible acknowledges the difficulties parents may face, offering encouragement and wisdom. James 1:5 assures, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." This promise encourages parents to seek divine guidance in their parenting journey.

Conclusion

The Bible provides a comprehensive framework for understanding the role and responsibilities of parents. Through its teachings, parents are encouraged to view their role as a divine calling, to cherish their children as blessings, and to diligently instruct them in the ways of the Lord.
Topical Bible Verses
Ephesians 6:4
And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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Psalm 127:3-5
See, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
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Proverbs 29:15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself brings his mother to shame.
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1 Timothy 2:15
Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
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Proverbs 22:15
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
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Proverbs 13:24
He that spares his rod hates his son: but he that loves him chastens him betimes.
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Colossians 3:21
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
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That Our Irrational Passions have their Rise from Kindred with ...
... of pleasure took its beginning from our being made like to the irrational creation,
and was increased by the transgressions of men, becoming the parent of so ...
/.../gregory of nyssa dogmatic treatises etc/xviii that our irrational passions.htm

The Upbringing of Jewish Children
... After that the fond eye of the Hebrew parent seems to watch the child as it ... almah,"
as in Isaiah 7:14, of the virgin-mother), which denotes becoming firm and ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 7 the upbringing of.htm

Children of Believers are Called "Clean" by the Apostle.
... sin is derived from a sinful parent, if some holiness is received from a holy parent? ...
thing for "holy ones" to be damned, how can it be a becoming thing to ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 41 children of believers are.htm

Whether Christ Will Judge under the Form of his Humanity?
... first parent. Hence, since the last judgment is directed to the admission of some
to the kingdom, and the exclusion of others therefrom, it is becoming that ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether christ will judge under.htm

Foundation of Moral Obligation.
... But the intrinsic value of the good to be sought by both parent and child must be ...
himself he would resolve to become truly moral instead of really becoming so. ...
/.../finney/systematic theology/lecture vii foundation of moral.htm

Whether it was More Fitting that the Person of the Son Rather than ...
... Therefore it would have been more becoming to the Father than to the Son to become ...
for this fitness may be taken from the sin of our first parent, for which ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether it was more fitting.htm

Home-Sympathy.
... by the hand of love, draw the child instinctively to the parent's heart, and ... they
will, like Mary, sit in loving pupilage at His feet, each becoming the agent ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/philips/the christian home/chapter xiv home-sympathy.htm

Christian Baptism.
... they be recreant to the solemn duties which are binding upon the parent after its ...
The spirit of our fathers upon this point is becoming so diluted that we can ...
/.../philips/the christian home/chapter xi christian baptism.htm

Who is on the Lord's Side? Exodus 32:26.
... and by attending to the development of their real design in becoming religions,
you learn ... and obedient child is perfect, or never fails in duty to his parent. ...
/.../finney/lectures to professing christians/who is on the lords.htm

The Lord's Prayer --Our Father in Heaven
... many places, as in Deuteronomy, "You have forsaken God your parent and forgotten ...
Image himself, a son, receive the impress of Sonship, becoming conformed not ...
/.../origen/origen on prayer/chapter xiii the lords prayerour.htm

Resources
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