Falling in Love
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Definition and Context
Falling in love is a profound emotional experience characterized by deep affection and attachment towards another person. In the biblical context, love is often seen as a gift from God, encompassing both romantic and divine dimensions. The Bible provides numerous examples and teachings on love, emphasizing its importance in human relationships and its reflection of God's nature.

Biblical Examples
1. Jacob and Rachel: One of the most well-known biblical accounts of romantic love is the account of Jacob and Rachel. Jacob fell deeply in love with Rachel and worked for seven years to marry her, which "seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her" (Genesis 29:20). This narrative highlights the enduring and sacrificial nature of true love.

2. Song of Solomon: This book is a poetic exploration of romantic love, celebrating the beauty and passion between a bride and groom. It provides a vivid depiction of falling in love, with expressions of desire and admiration. The Song of Solomon illustrates the joy and intensity of romantic love, while also serving as an allegory for God's love for His people.

3. Ruth and Boaz: The account of Ruth and Boaz is another example of love that develops over time. Ruth's loyalty and kindness towards her mother-in-law Naomi lead her to Boaz, who recognizes her virtues and eventually marries her. Their relationship is marked by mutual respect and commitment, reflecting the biblical ideal of love grounded in character and faithfulness.

Theological Insights
1. Love as a Divine Attribute: The Bible teaches that love originates from God, who is love (1 John 4:8). Human love, including romantic love, is a reflection of God's nature and His love for humanity. This divine perspective elevates the experience of falling in love, viewing it as part of God's design for human relationships.

2. Love and Marriage: The Bible often associates romantic love with the covenant of marriage. In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are instructed to "love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her" . This sacrificial love is the foundation of a biblical marriage, where falling in love is not merely an emotional experience but a commitment to selfless devotion.

3. Guarding the Heart: While falling in love is celebrated, the Bible also warns about the potential pitfalls of unchecked emotions. Proverbs 4:23 advises, "Guard your heart with all diligence, for from it flow springs of life" . This caution encourages believers to approach romantic relationships with wisdom and discernment, ensuring that love aligns with God's will.

Practical Applications
1. Pursuing Godly Love: Christians are encouraged to seek relationships that honor God and reflect His love. This involves prioritizing spiritual compatibility, shared values, and a commitment to grow together in faith.

2. Patience and Timing: The Bible emphasizes the importance of patience and waiting for God's timing in relationships. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, "To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven" . Trusting in God's timing can lead to more fulfilling and lasting relationships.

3. Love as Action: Falling in love should be accompanied by actions that demonstrate love's true nature. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 describes love as patient, kind, and enduring. These qualities should be evident in any relationship, reflecting the biblical standard of love.

In summary, falling in love is a significant and meaningful experience within the biblical framework, reflecting both human emotion and divine intention. The Bible provides guidance on how to navigate romantic relationships in a way that honors God and aligns with His purposes.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
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John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
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Library

"In Falling and in Rising we are ever Preciously Kept in one Love ...
... THE SIXTEENTH REVELATION CHAPTER LXXII "In falling and in rising we are ever
preciously kept in one Love ". "In falling and in rising ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter lxxii in falling and.htm

"By the Assay of this Falling we Shall have an High Marvellous ...
... POINTS IN THE FOREGOING FOURTEEN REVELATIONS CHAPTER LXI "By the assay of this falling
we shall have an high marvellous knowing of Love in God, without end. ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter lxi by the assay.htm

On Love, and the Repressing of Our Desires.
... just. [2858] A youth, falling in love with a courtezan, persuades the girl,
for a stipulated reward, to come to him next day. But ...
/.../clement/the stromata or miscellanies/chapter xviii on love and the.htm

How the Purity of Indifference is to be Practised in the Actions ...
... of loving God in order to please God, they begin to love him for the pleasure they
take in the exercises of holy love; and instead of falling in love with God ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter ix how the purity.htm

"We have Now Matter of Mourning: for Our Sin is Cause of Christ's ...
... we accuse our self, earnestly and truly seeing and knowing our falling and all ... therewith
that we earnestly and truly see and know His everlasting love that He ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter lii we have now.htm

Revelations of Divine Love
... CHAPTER LX "The Kind, loving, Mother". CHAPTER LXI "By the assay of this falling
we shall have an high marvellous knowing of Love in God, without end. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/julian/revelations of divine love/

Of the Love of God
... In the loved one joying; all other things despising and forgetting; thinking without
forgetfulness; ascending in desire; falling in his love; going on in ...
//christianbookshelf.org/rolle/the fire of love/chapter xi of the love.htm

The Ethics of Elfland
... Falling in love is more poetical than dropping into poetry. The democratic
contention is that government (helping to rule the tribe ...
//christianbookshelf.org/chesterton/orthodoxy/iv the ethics of elfland.htm

"Sin is the Sharpest Scourge. . . . By Contrition we are Made ...
... take heed thus that He is Ground of all our whole life in love; and furthermore ... so
much our need is the more for [that] we give them occasion by our falling. ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter xxxix sin is the.htm

"I Beheld the Property of Mercy, and I Beheld the Property of ...
... Our failing is dreadful, our falling is shameful, and our dying is sorrowful: but
in all this the sweet eye of pity and love is lifted never off us, nor the ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter xlviii i beheld the.htm

Resources
Will there be a great apostasy / falling away during the end times? | GotQuestions.org

What should we learn from the walls of Jericho falling down? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about legalism? How can a Christian avoid falling into the trap of legalism? | GotQuestions.org

Falling: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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