Helpmate
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The term "helpmate" is often associated with the biblical concept of a companion or partner, particularly in the context of marriage. The origin of this term is found in the creation narrative of the Book of Genesis, where God creates a partner for Adam. The word "helpmate" is derived from the phrase "help meet," which appears in the King James Version of the Bible.

Biblical Context

In Genesis 2:18, the Berean Standard Bible states: "The LORD God also said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper.'" This verse introduces the concept of a "helper" who is "suitable" for Adam, indicating a partner who complements and supports him. The Hebrew word used here is "ezer," which conveys the idea of assistance and support.

Genesis 2:21-24 further elaborates on the creation of Eve as Adam's helpmate: "So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he slept, He took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the area with flesh. And from the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man, He made a woman and brought her to him. And the man said: 'This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for out of man she was taken.' For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh."

Theological Significance

The creation of Eve as a helpmate for Adam underscores the complementary nature of the marital relationship. The term "helpmate" does not imply inferiority or subservience but rather a partnership where both individuals contribute uniquely to the relationship. The concept of "one flesh" signifies unity and mutual support, reflecting the divine intention for marriage.

Throughout Scripture, the role of a helpmate is seen as vital to the family structure and the broader community of faith. Proverbs 31:10-31 provides a detailed description of a virtuous woman, highlighting her role as a diligent and capable partner who contributes significantly to her household and society.

New Testament Perspective

The New Testament continues to affirm the importance of the marital relationship. In Ephesians 5:22-33, the Apostle Paul discusses the roles of husbands and wives, emphasizing love and mutual respect. Ephesians 5:25 states: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This passage underscores the sacrificial nature of love within marriage, where both partners are called to serve and support one another.

Cultural and Historical Considerations

Historically, the concept of a helpmate has been interpreted in various ways, often influenced by cultural norms and societal structures. In biblical times, the roles of men and women were distinct, yet the biblical narrative consistently affirms the value and dignity of both genders. The helpmate role is seen as integral to fulfilling God's design for human relationships, particularly within the covenant of marriage.

Conclusion

The biblical concept of a helpmate is rooted in the creation narrative and is integral to understanding the divine purpose for marriage. It emphasizes partnership, mutual support, and the complementary roles of husband and wife. The helpmate is not merely an assistant but a vital partner in the shared journey of life, reflecting the unity and love that God intended for His creation.
Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary
(n.) A helper; a companion; specifically, a wife.
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Whether Woman Should have Been Made from Man?
... and not from man. Objection 3: Further, woman was made to be a helpmate
to man in the work of generation. But close relationship ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether woman should have been.htm

Low Beetling Brows, -- a Sensual, Cruel Mouth with a Loosely ...
... Woman is the true helpmate of man, and takes a natural joy in being so whenever
we will allow it,"whenever we will give her scope for her actions, freedom ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/corelli/the master-christian/ix low beetling brows .htm

That Evil Comes of Sloth, and virtue from Diligence, and that ...
... The one [615] is a servant, the other [616] a partner of the man's life.
She is a helpmate, but the other is under subjection. Dost ...
/.../chrysostom/on the priesthood/homily iii that evil comes.htm

From the Creation to the Fall.
... was destined to be for his blessing. His soul had fellowship with Eve his
helpmate and God his creator. This garden also had in it ...
/.../tidwell/the bible period by period/chapter i from the creation.htm

The Life Story of Pastor Wang
... "Happy the meek; For they shall inherit the earth.". "The labourer whom
Christ in His own garden Chose to be His helpmate." DANTE. ...
/.../cable/the fulfilment of a dream of pastor hsis/chapter xiii the life story.htm

The British Advance, 1801-1856.
... he would have to marry; his wife was found for him by the Church; the marriage turned
out a happy one; and thus, with her as an official helpmate, he commenced ...
/.../hutton/history of the moravian church/chapter v the british advance.htm

Rom. I. 26, 27
... corruptness, when both sexes are abandoned, and both he that was ordained to be
the instructor of the woman, and she who was bid to become an helpmate to the ...
/.../chrysostom/homilies on acts and romans/homily iv rom i 26.htm

John i. 41, 42
... And he brought him to Jesus.". [1.] When God in the beginning made man, He did not
suffer him to be alone, but gave him woman for a helpmate, and made them to ...
/.../homilies on the gospel of st john and hebrews/homily xix john i 41.htm

Southcotters.
... obeyed, and thus man became dead to the knowledge of the good; and so he blamed
his Creator for giving him the woman, who was pronounced his helpmate for good. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/hayward/the book of religions/southcotters.htm

The Opinion of those who have Thought that the Mind was Signified ...
... if they are handled with due attention: unless that it is written, that in all the
beasts and flying things there was not found for man an helpmate like to ...
/.../augustine/on the holy trinity/chapter 13 the opinion of those.htm

Thesaurus
Helpmate (2 Occurrences)
...Helpmate (2 Occurrences). Genesis 2:18 And Jehovah Elohim said, It is not good that
Man should be alone; I will make him a helpmate, his like. (DBY). ...
/h/helpmate.htm - 7k

Helpmeet
... Genesis 2:18-20). Noah Webster's Dictionary. (n.) A wife; a helpmate. Int.
Standard Bible Encyclopedia. HELPMEET. help'-met. See HELP. ...
/h/helpmeet.htm - 6k

Elohim (38 Occurrences)
... DBY). Genesis 2:18 And Jehovah Elohim said, It is not good that Man should
be alone; I will make him a helpmate, his like. (DBY). ...
/e/elohim.htm - 18k

Helplessness (1 Occurrence)

/h/helplessness.htm - 6k

Resources
What does it mean that a wife is supposed to be a helpmeet / help meet? | GotQuestions.org

Is it biblical to call the wife of a pastor, elder, or bishop the First Lady of the church? | GotQuestions.org

Helpmate: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Helpmate (2 Occurrences)

Genesis 2:18
And Jehovah Elohim said, It is not good that Man should be alone; I will make him a helpmate, his like.
(DBY)

Genesis 2:20
And Man gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the heavens, and to every beast of the field; but as for Adam, he found no helpmate, his like.
(DBY)

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