Kind Words
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Definition and Importance
Kind words are expressions of compassion, encouragement, and love that reflect the character of God and the teachings of Scripture. They are powerful tools for building up individuals and communities, fostering peace, and demonstrating the love of Christ. The Bible emphasizes the significance of kind words in various contexts, highlighting their ability to heal, encourage, and bring about positive change.

Biblical References
The Bible contains numerous references to the power and importance of kind words. Proverbs 16:24 states, "Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones." This verse illustrates the nourishing and restorative nature of kind words, likening them to honey, which is both sweet and beneficial.

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul frequently encourages believers to use their words wisely. Ephesians 4:29 instructs, "Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need and bringing grace to those who listen." Here, Paul underscores the importance of speaking words that edify and impart grace, rather than those that harm or tear down.

The Role of Kind Words in Relationships
Kind words play a crucial role in maintaining healthy relationships. Proverbs 15:1 teaches, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." This proverb highlights the ability of gentle and kind words to defuse tension and prevent conflict, promoting harmony and understanding.

In family settings, kind words are essential for nurturing love and respect. Colossians 3:21 advises, "Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become discouraged." This verse emphasizes the importance of using words that encourage and uplift, rather than those that provoke or discourage.

Kind Words as a Reflection of the Heart
The Bible teaches that the words we speak are a reflection of our inner character. Jesus Himself stated in Matthew 12:34, "For out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks." This principle suggests that kind words are an indication of a heart transformed by the love and grace of God.

James 3:9-10 further elaborates on the dual nature of the tongue, stating, "With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, this should not be!" This passage calls believers to consistency in their speech, encouraging them to use their words to bless and uplift others.

Practical Application
Believers are called to be intentional in their use of kind words, recognizing their potential to impact others positively. Practicing kindness in speech involves being mindful of the words we choose, seeking to encourage, comfort, and support those around us. It also involves being quick to listen and slow to speak, as advised in James 1:19, "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger."

In summary, kind words are a vital aspect of Christian living, reflecting the love of Christ and contributing to the well-being of individuals and communities. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, believers are equipped to speak words that bring life, healing, and encouragement to those they encounter.
Topical Bible Verses
Ephesians 4:32
And be you kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you.
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Colossians 3:12
Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, long-suffering;
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James 4:11
Speak not evil one of another, brothers. He that speaks evil of his brother, and judges his brother, speaks evil of the law, and judges the law: but if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
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Greek
5543. chrestos -- serviceable, good
... words were pronounced alike.)" (FF Bruce,, 368).]. Word Origin adjective from chraomai
Definition serviceable, good NASB Word Usage easy (1), good (2), kind (2 ...
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5542. chrestologia -- smooth speech
... a kind address; in a bad sense: plausible speaking. Word Origin from chrestos and
lego Definition smooth speech NASB Word Usage smooth (1). good words. ...
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18. agathos -- good
... seen to be so or not, the widest and most colorless of all words with this ... man (2),
good thing (6), good things (6), goodness (1), goods (2), kind (1), kindly ...
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318. anagke -- necessity
... This kind of situation is typically brought on by great pain or distress (so
Diod., ,). In classical Greek many words take their stem from . ...
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4487. rhema -- a word, by impl. a matter
... thing spoken Definition: a thing spoken, (a) a word or saying of any kind, as command ...
1), sayings (3), statement (6), thing (2), things (4), word (18), words (22 ...
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Library

CM Jones Very. Kind Words.
... 286. CM Jones Very. Kind Words. 1 Turn not from him who asks of thee A portion of
thy store; Thou poor in worldly goods may'st be, Yet canst give what is more. ...
/.../various/book of hymns for public and private devotion/286 c m jones very.htm

A Little Sermon to School-Girls.
... Among the first characteristics of a person who is lovely and beloved, we must place
a kind and gentle manner toward all, kind words and kind deeds, and a ...
/.../a little sermon to school-girls.htm

Copiousness of Words
... turn into byways of speaking, and be compelled to change some words, and to ... History,
likewise, by its mild and grateful sap may afford kind nutriment to an ...
/.../kleiser/the training of a public speaker/copiousness of words.htm

The Bishop's Reply.
... brother and my dear brethren, the thankfulness"and I think I may speak for my brethren
of the delegation to Scotland"with which your kind words fill my ...
/.../the sermons and addresses at the seabury centenary/the bishops reply.htm

Prison Experiences for Conscience' Sake --Our Prison
... We were filled with deep sympathy for him and desired to cheer him by kind
words as well as by the knowledge of our similar situation. ...
/.../prison experiences for conscience sakeour.htm

Out of the Deep of Suffering and Sorrow.
... Therefore those words which we read in the Visitation of the Sick about this matter
are not mere kind words, meant to give comfort for the moment. ...
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The Apostles Chosen
... "And thus may we, of little things, Kind words and gentle deeds, Add wealth
or beauty to our lives, Which greater acts exceeds. ...
/.../newton/the life of jesus christ for the young/the apostles chosen.htm

Of his Cross what Shall I Speak, what Say? this Extremest Kind of ...
... This extremest kind of death He chose, that not any kind of death might make His ...
Of his former confession the words run thus: "The Lord gave, and the Lord hath ...
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Book Nine the End of the Autobiography. ...
... enough in a truly humane man merely not to incite or increase the enmities of men
by evil-speaking; he ought likewise to endeavor by kind words to extinguish ...
/.../augustine/confessions and enchiridion/book nine the end of.htm

Book of Hymns for Public and Private Devotion
... Kindly Judgment. 285. CM Anonymous. Speak Gently. 286. CM Jones Very. Kind Words.
287. CM Anonymous. "Neither Do I Condemn Thee.". 288. LM Scott. ...
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Resources
What are the different types of love mentioned in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Why is finding true love so difficult? | GotQuestions.org

What made some animals clean and others unclean (Genesis 7)? | GotQuestions.org

Kind: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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