Monogamy
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Definition and Overview:
Monogamy, in the context of biblical teachings, refers to the practice of being married to one spouse at a time. This concept is rooted in the creation narrative and is upheld throughout Scripture as the ideal model for marriage. Monogamy is often contrasted with polygamy, which involves having multiple spouses simultaneously.

Biblical Foundation:
The foundation for monogamy is established in the book of Genesis. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the union of one man and one woman as the divine blueprint for marriage. The "one flesh" principle highlights the exclusivity and intimacy intended in the marital relationship.

Old Testament Context:
While monogamy is presented as the ideal, the Old Testament contains accounts of polygamous relationships, particularly among patriarchs and kings. For example, Abraham, Jacob, David, and Solomon had multiple wives. However, these instances often led to familial strife and complications, suggesting a deviation from God's original design. The narrative of these figures serves as a cautionary tale, illustrating the challenges and discord that can arise from polygamous arrangements.

New Testament Affirmation:
The New Testament reaffirms the monogamous model of marriage. Jesus Christ, when questioned about marriage, refers back to the Genesis account, emphasizing the union of one man and one woman. In Matthew 19:4-6 , Jesus states, "Haven’t you read... that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

The Apostle Paul also upholds monogamy in his epistles. In 1 Timothy 3:2 , Paul instructs that a church overseer must be "the husband of but one wife," indicating that monogamy is a standard for leadership within the Christian community. Similarly, in Ephesians 5:31 , Paul echoes the Genesis mandate, reinforcing the one-flesh union.

Theological Implications:
Monogamy is seen as a reflection of the covenantal relationship between Christ and the Church. In Ephesians 5:25-27 , Paul draws a parallel between the love of a husband for his wife and Christ's sacrificial love for the Church. This analogy underscores the depth of commitment, fidelity, and unity expected in a monogamous marriage.

Cultural and Historical Considerations:
Throughout history, the practice of monogamy has been influenced by cultural norms and legal structures. In the biblical context, monogamy was often countercultural, especially in societies where polygamy was prevalent. The biblical endorsement of monogamy served as a distinctive marker of the people of God, setting them apart from surrounding nations.

Practical Application:
For Christians today, monogamy is not only a biblical mandate but also a practical framework for building strong, stable families. It fosters an environment of trust, mutual respect, and partnership. Monogamous marriage is seen as a means of fulfilling God's purpose for companionship, procreation, and the nurturing of children within a secure and loving environment.

Conclusion:
While the Bible records instances of polygamy, the overarching narrative and teachings consistently point to monogamy as the divine ideal for marriage. This model is rooted in creation, affirmed by Christ, and upheld by the apostles, serving as a timeless standard for Christian marriage.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
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Mark 10:8
And they two shall be one flesh: so then they are no more two, but one flesh.
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Deuteronomy 17:17
Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away: neither shall he greatly multiply to himself silver and gold.
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1 Timothy 3:2
A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behavior, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
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Library

On Monogamy
On Monogamy. <. On Monogamy Tertullian. Translated by Rev. S. Thelwall
Table of Contents. Title Page. Chapter I.--Different ...
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On Monogamy
On Monogamy. <. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/tertullian/on monogamy/title page.htm

Even the Old Discipline was not Without Precedents to Enforce ...
... Chapter VII."Even the Old Discipline Was Not Without Precedents to Enforce Monogamy
But in This as in Other Respects, the New Has Brought in a Higher ...
/.../tertullian/on exhortation to chastity/chapter vii even the old discipline.htm

The Explanation of the Passage Offered by the Psychics Considered.
On Monogamy. <. ... Is it not from all? If all are not bound to monogamy,
whence are monogamists (to be taken) into the clerical rank? ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter xii the explanation of the.htm

The Case of Abraham, and Its Bearing on the Present Question.
On Monogamy. <. ... His digamy began with circumcision, his monogamy with
uncircumcision. [609] You receive digamy; admit circumcision too. ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter vi the case of abraham.htm

Waiving Allusion to the Paraclete, Tertullian Comes to the ...
On Monogamy. <. ... deserved. But again: the reformation of the second
human race is traced from monogamy as its mother. ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter iv waiving allusion to the.htm

Connection of These Primeval Testimonies with Christ.
On Monogamy. ... Make your election, in which of the twain you account your "beginning."
In both, the censorial power of monogamy claims you for itself. ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter v connection of these primeval.htm

Heathen Examples Cry Shame Upon this "Infirmity of the Flesh. "
On Monogamy. <. ... husbands' death. To idols, at all events, both
monogamy and widowhood serve as apparitors. On Fortuna ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter xvii heathen examples cry shame.htm

The Spiritualists vindicated from the Charge of Novelty.
On Monogamy. <. ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter ii the spiritualists vindicated from.htm

From the Law Tertullian Comes to the Gospel He Begins with ...
On Monogamy. <. ...
/.../tertullian/on monogamy/chapter viii from the law tertullian.htm

Resources
Is there supposed to be only one church? | GotQuestions.org

How does one handle conflict in a marriage (or any relationship for that matter)? | GotQuestions.org

What does it mean to be in one accord? | GotQuestions.org

One: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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