Mother-In-Law: Not to be Defiled
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In the biblical context, the relationship between a man and his mother-in-law is addressed with specific guidelines, particularly concerning the sanctity and purity of familial relationships. The Bible provides clear instructions to maintain the integrity of these relationships, emphasizing the importance of honoring family boundaries and upholding moral standards.

Biblical References:

1. Leviticus 18:15 : "You must not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son’s wife; you are not to have sexual relations with her." This verse explicitly prohibits any form of sexual relationship between a man and his daughter-in-law, underscoring the sanctity of marriage and the respect due to family members. By extension, this principle applies to the mother-in-law, as the family unit is to be preserved in purity and honor.

2. Leviticus 20:14 : "If a man marries both a woman and her mother, it is depraved. Both he and they must be burned in the fire, so that there will be no depravity among you." This severe admonition highlights the gravity of defiling familial relationships. The act of marrying both a woman and her mother is considered an abomination, reflecting the broader biblical mandate to avoid any form of incestuous or inappropriate relationships within the family.

3. Deuteronomy 27:23 : "Cursed is he who sleeps with his mother-in-law." This curse serves as a strong deterrent against violating the sacred boundaries set by God for family relationships. It reinforces the idea that such actions are not only socially unacceptable but also spiritually condemned.

Theological Implications:

The biblical injunctions against defiling a mother-in-law are rooted in the broader context of maintaining holiness and purity within the family. The family is seen as a foundational institution ordained by God, and any actions that threaten its integrity are met with strong prohibitions. These laws serve to protect the family structure, ensuring that relationships are conducted with respect and honor.

From a theological perspective, these commandments reflect the holiness of God and His desire for His people to live in a manner that mirrors His character. The family is a microcosm of the larger community of faith, and its sanctity is paramount. By adhering to these guidelines, believers demonstrate their commitment to God's standards and their respect for the divine order.

Cultural and Historical Context:

In ancient Israelite society, the family was the primary social unit, and maintaining its purity was essential for the community's well-being. The laws concerning relationships with in-laws were part of a broader legal and moral code designed to preserve the social fabric and ensure the community's spiritual health.

The prohibitions against defiling a mother-in-law also reflect the cultural emphasis on honor and shame. Violating these boundaries would bring dishonor not only to the individuals involved but also to their families and the wider community. Thus, these laws served as a safeguard against actions that could lead to social and spiritual decay.

In summary, the biblical teachings on the relationship with a mother-in-law emphasize the importance of maintaining purity and honor within the family. These principles are integral to the broader biblical narrative of holiness and reflect God's desire for His people to live in accordance with His righteous standards.
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Leviticus 18:17
You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, neither shall you take her son's daughter, or her daughter's daughter, to uncover her nakedness; for they are her near kinswomen: it is wickedness.
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Leviticus 20:14
And if a man take a wife and her mother, it is wickedness: they shall be burnt with fire, both he and they; that there be no wickedness among you.
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Deuteronomy 27:23
Cursed be he that lies with his mother in law. And all the people shall say, Amen.
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In Palestine - Jews and Gentiles in the Land' - their Mutual ...
... Thus, the Asmonean princess, Alexandra, the mother-in-law of Herod ... They and theirs
were defiled; their houses unclean ... in a room, that he might not, in wantonness ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter vii in palestine -.htm

Third Circuit of Galilee. The Twelve Instructed and Sent Forth.
... The Jew, therefore, considered himself defiled by such dust. ... and the daughter in
law against her mother in law.36 and a ... or mother more than me is not worthy of ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/lxi third circuit of galilee.htm

The Call Intensified
... If we had gone in, those vessels and the water in them would have been defiled.
The women were not allowed to come out, the mother-in-law saw well to that ...
/.../wilson-carmichael/things as they are/chapter xviii the call intensified.htm

The Return to Capernaum - Healing of the Centurion's Servant.
... houses of Gentiles were considered as defiled, and as ... which, to say the least, are
not grounded on ... 14, when Peter's mother-in-law is described as thrown down ...
/.../edersheim/the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter xix the return to.htm

Oration on the Holy Lights.
... the father and the mother and the mother in law, [3976] the ... And how is He not God,
if I may digress a ... all the others, inasmuch as it cannot be defiled by after ...
/.../cyril/lectures of s cyril of jerusalem/oration xxxix oration on the.htm

Doctrinal and Moral Treatises. Index of Subjects.
... Alms, means of, not to be gotten by sin, [319]488; a means of pardon, [320]496;
given to Christ, [321]519; to be done for a heavenly reward, [322]520. ...
/.../on care to be had for the dead /doctrinal and moral treatises index.htm

Letter xxii. To Eustochium.
... He may indeed relieve one who is defiled from the penalty ... chooses to be a king's
wife and not a soldier's ... a high privilege; you are now the mother-in-law of God ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter xxii to eustochium.htm

Against Jovinianus.
... soul corrupt. But that virgin is a sacrifice to Christ, whose mind has
not been defiled by thought, nor her flesh by lust. On the ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/against jovinianus.htm

Life and Works of Rufinus with Jerome's Apology Against Rufinus.
... I trust, and I shall not trust in vain, that my readers will pardon my lack of skill,
since my object is not to amuse others but to endeavour to clear myself ...
/.../various/life and works of rufinus with jeromes apology against rufinus /

The Pilgrim's Progress
... But if they should not, ask them yet again If formerly they did not entertain One
CHRISTIAN, a Pilgrim? ... CHRIST. Can you not tell how you knocked? ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/the pilgrims progress.htm

Resources
Dealing with a mother-in-law...? | GotQuestions.org

What is the spirit of the law? | GotQuestions.org

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