Abner vs. other leaders seeking God?
Compare Abner's actions with other biblical leaders who sought God's guidance.

Abner takes matters into his own hands

2 Samuel 3:12: “Then Abner sent messengers on his behalf to David, saying, ‘To whom does the land belong? Make a covenant with me, and surely my hand will be with you to bring all Israel over to you!’”

• Abner moves politically, not prayerfully.

– No mention of consulting the LORD.

– Motivation flows from personal offense (3:7-11) and ambition rather than divine direction.

– Outcome: temporary success, yet it unravels through Joab’s vengeance (3:27).


Leaders who paused to seek the LORD first

• Moses — Exodus 33:13; Numbers 9:8

– “Stand still, and I will hear what the LORD will command concerning you.”

• David — 1 Samuel 23:2, 4; 2 Samuel 2:1

– “David inquired of the LORD, ‘Shall I go and attack…?’ … And the LORD answered.”

• Jehoshaphat — 2 Chronicles 20:3-4

– Proclaimed a fast; set himself “to seek the LORD.”

• Hezekiah — 2 Kings 19:14-19

– Spread the crisis “before the LORD” in the temple.

• Nehemiah — Nehemiah 1:4-11; 2:4-5

– Months of prayer before requesting help from the king.

• Gideon — Judges 6:36-40

– Asked for confirming signs to be sure of God’s will.


A cautionary contrast: when guidance was ignored

• Joshua with the Gibeonites — Joshua 9:14

– “They did not seek the LORD’s counsel,” leading to an unwanted treaty.

• Saul before the Philistines — 1 Samuel 14:18-19

– Interrupted the priest, pressed ahead, and the battle stalled.

• Rehoboam — 1 Kings 12:8

– Rejected wise counsel, split the kingdom.


Patterns seen in God-seeking leaders

• Humility: admitting dependence on divine wisdom (Psalm 25:4-5).

• Patience: waiting until direction is clear (Psalm 37:7).

• Worship and fasting often precede decisions (Acts 13:2-3).

• Obedience follows guidance, even when costly (Genesis 22:3).


Key takeaways for today

• Personal ambition can masquerade as wisdom; Abner’s story warns against self-directed plans.

• God delights to guide leaders who ask (James 1:5).

• Seeking the LORD anchors decisions in His purposes, producing lasting fruit (Proverbs 3:5-6; John 15:16).

How can we discern God's direction in our leadership roles today?
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