How can we support others struggling with addiction, based on Proverbs 23:35? The Cry Behind the Verse Proverbs 23:35: “ ‘They struck me,’ you will say, ‘but I did not feel it. They beat me, but I did not know it. When will I wake up so I can find another drink?’ ” • The speaker is numb to pain and obsessed with the next drink—classic signs of bondage. • Addiction distorts perception (“I did not feel it”) and creates relentless craving (“find another drink”). • Recognizing this spiritual and physical slavery shapes how we come alongside the struggler. Recognizing the Cycle of Destructive Desire • Denial of harm – “They struck me … but I did not feel it.” • Impaired awareness – “They beat me, but I did not know it.” • Compulsive pursuit – “When will I wake up so I can find another drink?” Our support must address all three: truth-telling, awakening conscience, and redirecting desire. Practical Ways to Stand with a Struggling Brother or Sister • Speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Gently name the damage addiction is causing; avoid shaming. • Restore with a spirit of gentleness (Galatians 6:1). The goal is healing, not humiliation. • Shoulder the burden (Galatians 6:2). Offer rides to meetings, help with chores, accompany to counseling. • Encourage professional and pastoral help. Addiction often needs medical, therapeutic, and spiritual care together. • Provide safe, sober environments—invite for meals, game nights, worship gatherings free of triggers. • Stay accessible in crisis; late-night calls may be lifesaving (Proverbs 17:17). • Celebrate small victories; reinforce progress rather than only pointing out slips (Romans 15:2). Guarding Our Own Hearts While Helping • Keep watch on yourself lest you too be tempted (Galatians 6:1). Maintain accountability and prayer support. • Set healthy boundaries; love does not enable (Proverbs 19:19). • Remember ultimate responsibility rests with the individual; we plant and water, God gives growth (1 Corinthians 3:6). Anchoring Hope in Christ • Jesus came “to proclaim freedom for captives” (Luke 4:18). Freedom is possible. • “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed” (John 8:36). Point continually to the Liberator, not merely to sobriety programs. • God’s power demolishes strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4-5). Pray Scripture over them; encourage memorization of verses like 1 Corinthians 10:13. • Persist in hope. James 5:19-20 reminds us that turning a sinner from wandering saves a soul and covers a multitude of sins. By holding up truth, practical support, and Christ-centered hope, we help the addicted wake up—not for another drink, but for new life. |
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