How can we apply Jethro's example of releasing control in our daily lives? Setting the Scene “Then Moses sent his father-in-law on his way, and Jethro returned to his own land.” (Exodus 18:27) Jethro had just offered Moses wise counsel about delegation (vv. 17-23). Having passed on what God showed him, he quietly stepped back, trusting the Lord to work through Moses and the new leaders. His departure is a snapshot of godly release—handing over a task, a person, or a season to God’s care. Why Jethro Could Walk Away Confidently • He trusted God’s character. – “The LORD will fulfill His purpose for me.” (Psalm 138:8) • He respected Moses’ God-given calling. – “Each has his own gift from God.” (1 Corinthians 7:7) • He recognized his own assignment was complete. – “There is a time to plant and a time to uproot.” (Ecclesiastes 3:2) What Releasing Control Looks Like for Us • Delegating at work or church without micromanaging. • Allowing adult children to make decisions while remaining available for counsel. • Stepping aside from a ministry when God raises new leadership. • Trusting the Lord with unresolved situations after we have obeyed Him. Practical Steps to Follow Jethro’s Example 1. Seek God’s wisdom first. – “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God.” (James 1:5) 2. Speak truth, then stop. – Share counsel humbly (Ephesians 4:15), then refrain from constant follow-up. 3. Acknowledge limits. – Like John the Baptist: “He must increase; I must decrease.” (John 3:30) 4. Commission and release. – Moses “chose capable men” (Exodus 18:25), then Jethro left. Affirm others, pray over them, and let them lead. 5. Rest in God’s sovereignty. – “Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7) Heart Checks While Letting Go • Am I clinging to control out of fear? (Psalm 56:3) • Do I crave recognition more than fruitfulness? (Galatians 1:10) • Have I truly transferred the burden to the Lord? (Matthew 11:28-30) Promises to Anchor Our Release • God completes what He begins (Philippians 1:6). • His plans stand firm forever (Psalm 33:11). • He supplies every need for the task ahead (Philippians 4:19). Living It Out This Week • Identify one area where you’re still gripping the reins. • Apply Jethro’s pattern: offer wisdom if needed, entrust the outcome to God, and step back in faith. Releasing control is not resignation; it is confident obedience. Just as Jethro headed home in peace, we too can walk forward, trusting the Lord who steers every journey. |