Apply Moses' permission-seeking daily?
How can we apply Moses' example of seeking permission in our daily interactions?

Setting the Scene

Exodus 4:18: “Then Moses went back to his father-in-law Jethro and said to him, ‘Please let me return to my brothers in Egypt to see if they are still alive.’ ‘Go in peace,’ Jethro replied.”


What Moses Shows Us

• God had already commanded Moses to go (Exodus 3:10; 4:19), yet Moses still sought Jethro’s permission.

• He honored the human authority and relationships God had placed in his life (cf. Ephesians 6:2).

• He modeled humility—recognizing that receiving a commission from God does not cancel courtesy toward people (Proverbs 15:33).

• His request allowed Jethro to bless and send him, strengthening unity (cf. Philippians 2:1-4).


Biblical Principles That Flow From This Moment

• Respect for authority—“Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities” (Romans 13:1).

• Honor within the family—“Children, obey your parents in the Lord” (Ephesians 6:1).

• Mutual submission—“Submit to one another in the fear of Christ” (Ephesians 5:21).

• Seeking peace—“If it is possible…live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18).

• Humble dependence—“Trust in the LORD with all your heart…acknowledge Him in all your ways” (Proverbs 3:5-6).


Practical Ways to Seek Permission Today

• Before making a major decision, talk with those who will be affected—spouse, parents, elders, employers.

• Use gracious words: “Please,” “May I,” “Would you be open to…?” (Colossians 4:6).

• Explain motives, not just plans—why the step matters for God’s glory (1 Corinthians 10:31).

• Wait for a response; true permission involves listening (James 1:19).

• Accept counsel and correction without defensiveness (Proverbs 12:15).

• When released, move forward confidently—Jethro’s “Go in peace” mirrors God’s affirmation (Acts 13:3).


Everyday Scenarios

• Work: Ask a supervisor before shifting priorities or taking time off; show reliability (Colossians 3:22-23).

• Church: Seek elder input before starting a new ministry; fosters accountability (Hebrews 13:17).

• Family: Teens requesting outings or device use demonstrate honor by seeking parental consent (Luke 2:51).

• Community: Neighbors appreciate a heads-up about events that impact them—parking, noise, gatherings (Romans 15:2).

• Online: Obtain permission before sharing someone’s story or photo; love “does no wrong to its neighbor” (Romans 13:10).


Benefits of Following Moses’ Pattern

• Builds trust—others feel valued and safe.

• Protects testimony—believers are “above reproach” (Philippians 2:15).

• Invites wisdom—multiple counselors bring clarity (Proverbs 11:14).

• Strengthens relationships—peace replaces presumption.

• Honors God—obedience in the small confirms readiness for larger tasks (Luke 16:10).


Living the Lesson

Seeking permission is not weakness; it is Spirit-empowered humility. Just as Moses respected Jethro, we glorify God when we slow down, ask, listen, and then go forward “in peace.”

In what ways can we seek God's guidance before making significant life decisions?
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