How can we apply Paul's humility in Acts 23:5 to our conflicts? Context of Acts 23:5 “Brothers,” Paul replied, “I did not realize that he was the high priest; for it is written: “ ‘Do not speak evil of the ruler of your people.’ ” (Acts 23:5) Snapshots of Paul’s Humility • He speaks respectfully even after an unjust slap (vv. 1–2). • When corrected, he immediately yields to Scripture, not pride. • He shows that honoring God’s Word outweighs defending personal reputation. • He models submission to an office he knew was being misused. What We Can Take Into Our Conflicts • Scripture over self-justification. – Paul let Exodus 22:28 steer his response. • Quick course-correction. – No excuses, no delay—just an instant, humble adjustment. • Respect for authority despite flaws. • Guarded speech. – Ephesians 4:29; Proverbs 15:1. • Witness first, ego last. – Philippians 2:14-16 keeps the gospel on center stage. Practical Steps to Imitate Paul 1. Know the Word. • Daily exposure arms us with truth to override impulse (Psalm 119:11). 2. Pause before you speak. • “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger” (James 1:19-20). 3. Verify the facts. • Paul’s ignorance of the high priest shows the importance of clarity before criticism. 4. Apologize immediately when wrong. • A swift “I was out of line” disarms conflict and honors God. 5. Honor positions even when people disappoint. • David refused to harm Saul (1 Samuel 24:6) though Saul pursued him. 6. Entrust justice to God. • “Do not repay anyone evil for evil…leave room for God’s wrath” (Romans 12:17-19). 7. Keep eternal goals in view. • We are “ambassadors for Christ” (2 Corinthians 5:20); every conflict is a stage for the gospel. Supporting Passages • Colossians 3:12-13—Put on humility and bear with one another. • Philippians 2:3-4—Consider others above yourselves. • Proverbs 17:27—A man of understanding is even-tempered. • Matthew 5:9—Blessed are the peacemakers. Key Takeaways • Humility is revealed not by never erring, but by how quickly we repent. • Scripture, not emotion, must set the boundaries of our speech. • Honoring imperfect authority honors the perfect Authority who ordained it. • Every conflict is an opportunity to showcase Christlike character—just like Paul did on the Sanhedrin floor. |