How can we "repay no one evil for evil" in daily interactions? The Call to a Different Standard “Repay no one evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everyone.” (Romans 12:17) • Scripture speaks plainly and authoritatively—retaliation is never an option for the follower of Christ. • The command is not merely to avoid revenge but to think ahead about actions that are “right” and honorable to all observers. Why Resisting Retaliation Matters • Protects our witness—Matthew 5:16 reminds us that good works glorify the Father. • Reflects God’s character—Psalm 103:10: “He has not dealt with us according to our sins.” • Leaves room for divine justice—Romans 12:19: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.” Practical Ways to Refuse Payback • Pause before reacting—Proverbs 15:1: “A gentle answer turns away wrath.” • Pray for the offender—Matthew 5:44: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” • Speak blessing, not cursing—1 Peter 3:9: “Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing.” • Offer tangible kindness—Proverbs 25:21: “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat.” • Seek wise counsel—Proverbs 11:14: “With many counselors there is victory.” When Wronged in Everyday Situations Workplace – Commended by a boss for someone else’s idea? Congratulate the coworker publicly. – Assigned blame unfairly? State facts calmly; refuse to gossip or undermine. Family – Sibling criticism at a gathering? Respond with gratitude for their perspective, then change the tone by affirming them. – Spouse snaps after a long day? Lower your voice, ask how you can help, and give space if needed. Online – Heated comment thread? Choose silence or a short, gracious reply (Proverbs 17:27). – Misrepresentation on social media? Clarify privately, not through public shaming. Community – Neighbor damages property? Approach with courtesy, propose a solution, and, if possible, absorb part of the cost. – Service worker rude? Thank them for what they did right, tip generously, and leave peacefully. Fuel for Endurance: Remember God’s Justice • God sees every wrong—Hebrews 4:13. • He will judge impartially—1 Peter 1:17. • Our calling is to overcome evil with good—Romans 12:21. Living Examples from Scripture • Joseph—Genesis 50:20: “You meant evil against me, but God intended it for good.” • David—1 Samuel 24: David spares Saul in the cave. • Stephen—Acts 7:60: “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” These accounts show that refusing revenge is possible, powerful, and always honored by God. |
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