Biblical friendships like Jonathan & David?
What other biblical friendships mirror Jonathan and David's relationship?

Verse Focus: 1 Samuel 20:17

“And Jonathan once again swore to David in his love for him, for he loved him as he loved himself.”


What Made Their Friendship Special

• deep covenant commitment

• self-sacrificing loyalty in danger

• spiritual encouragement toward God’s purposes

• honoring promises even beyond death (2 Samuel 9:1–7)


Friendships That Echo Their Covenant

• Moses & Joshua

– Joshua served Moses “from his youth” (Numbers 11:28) and never left the tent of meeting (Exodus 33:11)

– Moses, guided by God, laid hands on Joshua and filled him with the Spirit for leadership (Deuteronomy 34:9)

– Like Jonathan, Moses invests himself so his friend can step into a God-given future

• Ruth & Naomi

– “Where you go I will go… your God will be my God.” (Ruth 1:16-17)

– Ruth binds herself to Naomi in steadfast love, risking her own security just as Jonathan risked the throne for David

• Elijah & Elisha

– Three times Elijah urges Elisha to stay behind; each time Elisha replies, “As surely as the LORD lives… I will not leave you.” (2 Kings 2:2, 4, 6)

– Elisha receives a double portion only after staying faithfully at Elijah’s side (2 Kings 2:9-12)

• Daniel & His Three Friends

– They seek mercy from God “so that Daniel and his friends might not perish.” (Daniel 2:17-18)

– In the fiery furnace, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego stand united, prepared to die together rather than betray the Lord (Daniel 3:16-18)

– Their solidarity mirrors Jonathan and David’s readiness to face danger shoulder to shoulder

• Paul & Timothy

– “I have no one else like him, who will show genuine concern for your welfare.” (Philippians 2:20-22)

– Paul calls Timothy “my beloved child” and longs to see him (2 Timothy 1:2-4)

– As Jonathan equipped David with his own armor (1 Samuel 18:4), Paul equips Timothy with sound doctrine (2 Timothy 3:14-17)

• Jesus & John (“the disciple whom He loved”)

– John leans against Jesus at the table (John 13:23) and stands with Him at the cross (John 19:26-27)

– The trust Jesus shows by entrusting His mother to John parallels Jonathan entrusting his very life’s future to David


Shared Threads Across These Friendships

• covenant-like vows or actions rather than casual affection

• readiness to sacrifice personal advantage for the other’s good

• mutual pursuit of God’s will

• faithfulness that endures crises—and, in several cases, death


Living Out the Pattern Today

The Scripture paints loyal, God-centered friendships as a vital means of grace. By embracing covenant loyalty, self-sacrifice, and spiritual encouragement—modeled by Jonathan and David and echoed in these other pairs—we walk in patterns God has repeatedly blessed throughout His Word.

How can we emulate Jonathan's loyalty in our friendships today?
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