What other biblical friendships mirror Jonathan and David's relationship? Verse Focus: 1 Samuel 20:17 “And Jonathan once again swore to David in his love for him, for he loved him as he loved himself.” What Made Their Friendship Special • deep covenant commitment • self-sacrificing loyalty in danger • spiritual encouragement toward God’s purposes • honoring promises even beyond death (2 Samuel 9:1–7) Friendships That Echo Their Covenant • Moses & Joshua – Joshua served Moses “from his youth” (Numbers 11:28) and never left the tent of meeting (Exodus 33:11) – Moses, guided by God, laid hands on Joshua and filled him with the Spirit for leadership (Deuteronomy 34:9) – Like Jonathan, Moses invests himself so his friend can step into a God-given future • Ruth & Naomi – “Where you go I will go… your God will be my God.” (Ruth 1:16-17) – Ruth binds herself to Naomi in steadfast love, risking her own security just as Jonathan risked the throne for David • Elijah & Elisha – Three times Elijah urges Elisha to stay behind; each time Elisha replies, “As surely as the LORD lives… I will not leave you.” (2 Kings 2:2, 4, 6) – Elisha receives a double portion only after staying faithfully at Elijah’s side (2 Kings 2:9-12) • Daniel & His Three Friends – They seek mercy from God “so that Daniel and his friends might not perish.” (Daniel 2:17-18) – In the fiery furnace, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego stand united, prepared to die together rather than betray the Lord (Daniel 3:16-18) – Their solidarity mirrors Jonathan and David’s readiness to face danger shoulder to shoulder • Paul & Timothy – “I have no one else like him, who will show genuine concern for your welfare.” (Philippians 2:20-22) – Paul calls Timothy “my beloved child” and longs to see him (2 Timothy 1:2-4) – As Jonathan equipped David with his own armor (1 Samuel 18:4), Paul equips Timothy with sound doctrine (2 Timothy 3:14-17) • Jesus & John (“the disciple whom He loved”) – John leans against Jesus at the table (John 13:23) and stands with Him at the cross (John 19:26-27) – The trust Jesus shows by entrusting His mother to John parallels Jonathan entrusting his very life’s future to David Shared Threads Across These Friendships • covenant-like vows or actions rather than casual affection • readiness to sacrifice personal advantage for the other’s good • mutual pursuit of God’s will • faithfulness that endures crises—and, in several cases, death Living Out the Pattern Today The Scripture paints loyal, God-centered friendships as a vital means of grace. By embracing covenant loyalty, self-sacrifice, and spiritual encouragement—modeled by Jonathan and David and echoed in these other pairs—we walk in patterns God has repeatedly blessed throughout His Word. |