Christian response to ridicule?
How should Christians respond to ridicule, as seen in Psalm 69:12?

Setting the Scene

Psalm 69 unveils David’s raw prayer when hostility and mockery press in. Verse 12 captures the sting: “Those who sit at the gate mock me, and I am the song of drunkards.” Because the Holy Spirit inspired this psalm, it also foreshadows Christ (John 2:17; Romans 15:3). Our response to ridicule is therefore anchored in both David’s experience and Jesus’ ultimate fulfillment.


Recognizing Ridicule

• Ridicule often comes from influential places (“those who sit at the gate” ‑ community leaders) and from reckless voices (“drunkards”).

• It aims to shame faith, undermine confidence, and isolate believers.

• Expect it: “Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted” (2 Timothy 3:12).


Christ’s Pattern in Ridicule

• Fulfillment of Psalm 69: “Zeal for Your house has consumed Me” (Psalm 69:9; John 2:17).

• On the cross, mockers circled Him (Matthew 27:39-44).

• Response: “When He was reviled, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats, but entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly” (1 Peter 2:23).


Right-Hearted Responses for Believers

• Hand it to God first

– Pray honestly, like David (Psalm 69:13).

– Pour out grief, but anchor hope in God’s character (Psalm 69:16).

• Remember your identity

– Mockery does not define you; God’s verdict does (Romans 8:33-34).

• Refuse retaliation

– “Do not repay anyone evil for evil… Overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:17, 21).

• Rejoice in solidarity with Christ

– “Blessed are you when people insult you… Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven” (Matthew 5:11-12).

• Keep doing good

– David kept worshiping (Psalm 69:30).

– We remain faithful, “not growing weary in doing good” (Galatians 6:9).


Practical Steps When Mocked

1. Pause and breathe a quick plea: “Lord, guard my tongue” (Psalm 141:3).

2. Answer gently, if needed: “A gentle answer turns away wrath” (Proverbs 15:1).

3. Redirect focus: testify to hope with “gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15).

4. Lean on fellowship: share burdens with trustworthy believers (Galatians 6:2).

5. Feed on Scripture: combat lies with truth (Psalm 119:24).

6. Serve the mocker: unexpected kindness “heaps burning coals on his head” (Romans 12:20).


Promises to Hold

• God hears the despised: “For the LORD listens to the needy and does not despise His captive people” (Psalm 69:33).

• Vindication is certain: “He will bring forth your righteousness like the dawn” (Psalm 37:6).

• Eternal perspective outweighs temporary ridicule: “Our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory” (2 Corinthians 4:17).


Closing Encouragement

Ridicule may sting, but it presses us nearer to the Man of Sorrows who was mocked in our place. Trust His vindication, mirror His meekness, keep honoring Him, and let every taunt become an opportunity to display the surpassing worth of knowing Christ.

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