Contrast imagery: Song 6:8 vs Prov 31:10-31.
Compare the imagery in Song of Solomon 6:8 with Proverbs 31:10-31.

Scripture Texts

Song of Solomon 6:8

“There are sixty queens and eighty concubines, and maidens without number.”

Proverbs 31:10-31 (selected)

• “An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far more than rubies.” (v. 10)

• “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and loving devotion is on her tongue.” (v. 26)

• “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also praises her: ‘Many daughters have done noble things, but you surpass them all.’” (vv. 28-29)

• “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” (v. 30)


Key Imagery in Songs 6:8

• Numbers—“sixty…eighty…without number”: an abundance of women in the royal court.

• Royal titles—“queens” and “concubines”: positions of honor and privilege.

• Contrast implied: amid countless options, the king treasures one unique beloved (vv. 9-10 show this).


Portrait of the Virtuous Woman in Proverbs 31:10-31

• Rarity—“who can find?” (v. 10): she is hard to discover, like the singular beloved of Songs 6.

• Inestimable value—“far more than rubies” (v. 10): preciousness beyond ordinary treasures.

• Excellence acknowledged—“you surpass them all” (v. 29): superiority over “many daughters,” echoing the surpassing of maidens in Songs 6.

• Fear of the LORD (v. 30): the foundational quality beneath her outward deeds.


Shared Themes and Imagery

• Rarity within abundance

– Songs 6: one beloved distinguished from multitudes.

Proverbs 31: one virtuous woman exceeding “many daughters.”

• Supreme worth

– Songs 6: the king’s unique delight (v. 9).

Proverbs 31: worth beyond rubies (v. 10).

• Public praise

– Songs 6: other women call her “blessed” and “chosen” (v. 9).

Proverbs 31: children and husband praise her openly (v. 28).

• Moral excellence, not mere beauty

– Songs 6: character wins the king’s singular affection.

Proverbs 31: “Charm is deceptive… but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (v. 30).


Complementary Insights

• Both passages elevate covenantal love—romantic in Songs 6, familial in Proverbs 31—grounded in commitment rather than superficial attraction.

• They present a model of womanhood that is simultaneously cherished by man and honored before community (cf. 1 Peter 3:3-4).

• The exclusivity pictured hints at the LORD’s own covenant love for His people (Isaiah 54:5; Ephesians 5:25-27).


Personal Application

• Seek the kind of character that causes genuine praise—grounded in the fear of the LORD and steadfast devotion.

• Honor and celebrate such women publicly, reflecting the biblical pattern of open commendation.

How can we apply the idea of exclusivity in Song of Solomon to marriage today?
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