Disciples' response shows bond with Jesus?
What does the disciples' response in Matthew 26:22 reveal about their relationship with Jesus?

Setting the Scene

Matthew 26 records the Passover meal just hours before the cross. Jesus has just declared, “Truly I tell you, one of you will betray Me” (v. 21).


Text of Matthew 26:22

“They were deeply grieved and began to ask Him one after another, ‘Surely not I, Lord?’ ”


Noticing the Components of Their Response

• Deep grief—an emotional reaction, not indifference

• “One after another”—each disciple speaks personally

• A question, not a denial—“Surely not I?”

• The honorific “Lord”—recognition of His authority and deity


What Their Response Reveals About Their Relationship with Jesus

• Tender-hearted sensitivity to His words

– His statement cuts them to the heart; they take Him with absolute seriousness.

• Personal humility and self-examination

– Instead of pointing at others, each looks inward (cf. 2 Corinthians 13:5).

• Recognition of Jesus’ perfect knowledge

– They assume He sees what they themselves cannot (cf. John 2:25).

• Trust in His righteousness and fairness

– No defensiveness; they invite His verdict on their hearts.

• Use of “Lord” underscores allegiance and worship

– They approach Him as Master, not as a mere teacher.

• Awareness of human weakness

– Even after years with Jesus, they know betrayal is possible apart from His sustaining grace (cf. John 15:5).


Supporting Passages

Mark 14:19 and Luke 22:23 echo the same question, showing the response was unanimous.

• Peter’s earlier confession: “Depart from me, for I am a sinful man, O Lord” (Luke 5:8) displays the same humility.

• “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life” (John 6:68) shows their settled trust in His authority.


Takeaways for Today

• A healthy relationship with Jesus is marked by quick, honest self-examination when confronted by His Word.

• Reverence (“Lord”) and intimacy (“Is it I?”) are not opposites; they belong together.

• Dependence on Christ’s knowledge of our hearts guards us from pride and presumption.

How does Matthew 26:22 encourage self-examination in our spiritual walk today?
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