Elihu's wisdom vs. Proverbs' wisdom?
How does Elihu's statement in Job 32:14 align with Proverbs on wisdom?

Elihu Steps In: Fresh Eyes on an Old Debate

“ ‘He has not directed his words against me, and I will not answer him with your arguments.’ ” (Job 32:14)


Why This Line Matters

• Elihu refuses to recycle the three friends’ accusations.

• He recognizes Job’s words were not aimed at him personally—so he need not take offense.

• He signals a desire to speak with discernment rather than default to worn-out talking points.


Echoes of Proverbs: Hallmarks of Wise Speech

1. Listening before responding

• “He who answers before he hears—it is folly and shame to him.” (Proverbs 18:13)

• Elihu has listened through 31 chapters; now he speaks.

2. Restraint and measured words

• “A man of knowledge restrains his words, and a man of understanding maintains a calm spirit.” (Proverbs 17:27)

• By declining to “answer … with your arguments,” Elihu shows restraint instead of rushing to judgment.

3. Refusing to mirror folly

• “Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will become like him yourself.” (Proverbs 26:4)

• The friends’ reasoning had grown circular and accusatory. Elihu will not copy it.

4. Correcting with purpose

• “Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he become wise in his own eyes.” (Proverbs 26:5)

• Elihu intends to address Job’s mistaken assumptions about God’s justice, but with a new, God-centered angle.

5. Weighing words carefully

• “The heart of the righteous weighs its answers.” (Proverbs 15:28)

• Elihu signals thoughtful, weighed speech instead of reactive rhetoric.

6. Grounding wisdom in the LORD

• “For the LORD gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding.” (Proverbs 2:6)

• Elihu will soon declare, “It is the Spirit in a man … that gives him understanding” (Job 32:8), echoing Proverbs’ source of wisdom.


What We Learn About True Wisdom

• Wisdom listens long before it speaks.

• Wisdom refuses to imitate unhelpful arguments, even when those arguments are popular.

• Wisdom aims to correct, not to score points.

• Wisdom draws its authority from God, not from age, status, or majority opinion (Job 32:6–9).

• Wisdom trusts that a fresh, Spirit-led perspective can cut through stale debates and point back to the fear of the LORD, “the beginning of knowledge” (Proverbs 1:7).


Take-Home Snapshot

Elihu’s choice to forgo borrowed rhetoric in Job 32:14 embodies the Proverbs portrait of a wise person: patient, discerning, restrained, and anchored in God’s own wisdom.

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