What steps can you take to ensure humility in light of Absalom's example? Absalom’s Problem With Pride 2 Samuel 14:25: “In all Israel there was no one as handsome as Absalom; from the sole of his foot to the crown of his head he had no flaw.” Outer brilliance bred inner arrogance, and that unchecked pride birthed rebellion. To avoid repeating his mistake, take these Scripture-shaped steps: Start With a Heart Check • Admit pride’s presence. Jeremiah 17:9 reminds us the heart is “deceitful above all things.” • Invite God’s scrutiny: “Search me, O God… reveal my anxious thoughts” (Psalm 139:23-24). • Measure yourself by God’s standard, not people’s applause (Galatians 1:10). Remember the Source of Every Gift • “Every good and perfect gift is from above” (James 1:17). Absalom’s looks were God’s gift; he treated them as personal glory. • Regularly list your abilities and thank the Giver out loud. Gratitude breaks entitlement before it settles in. Stay Low by Staying Close to the King • Absalom distanced himself from David, the anointed king, and soon opposed him. • Draw near to Christ daily—Word open, knees bent. John 15:5: “Apart from Me you can do nothing.” Choose Hidden Service • Seek tasks no one notices: cleaning, setting up chairs, writing quiet notes of encouragement. • Matthew 6:4: “Your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” Guard the Gate of Your Tongue • Absalom stole hearts by flattering the crowds (2 Samuel 15:2-6). • Speak truth seasoned with love; refuse self-promotion. Proverbs 27:2: “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth.” Invite God’s Loving Discipline • Hebrews 12:6: “The Lord disciplines the one He loves.” • When correction comes through leaders or circumstances, receive it without resentment. Discipline drills wells of humility. Keep the Cross in View • Philippians 2:5-8 shows the ultimate pattern: Jesus “humbled Himself, becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross.” • Meditate on His descent; pride melts when you linger at Calvary. Practiced consistently, these steps place you under God’s mighty hand—right where “He will exalt you in due time” (1 Peter 5:6). |
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