How can we handle disagreements like Paul and Barnabas in Acts 15:39? Setting the Scene Acts 15:39: “Their disagreement was so sharp that they parted company. Barnabas took Mark and sailed for Cyprus.” • Paul and Barnabas, longtime partners in ministry, lock horns over John Mark’s dependability. • The contention is described as “so sharp,” indicating an intense clash of convictions. • Rather than derail the gospel mission, they choose separate routes—doubling the outreach. What We Learn from the Clash • Serious believers can disagree passionately without abandoning truth or mission. • Separation, while not ideal, can be preferable to paralyzing strife (cf. Amos 3:3). • God remains sovereign; two missionary teams emerge instead of one (Romans 8:28). Ground Rules for God-Honoring Disagreement • Maintain humility: “with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesians 4:2–3). • Keep the mission central. Personal preferences bow to gospel priorities (Philippians 1:18). • Speak truth in love—clear, honest dialogue without personal attacks (Ephesians 4:15). • Seek wise counsel. The Jerusalem Council had just modeled corporate discernment (Acts 15:6). • Leave room for restoration. Paul later says, “Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is useful to me in the ministry” (2 Timothy 4:11). Practical Steps When Conflict Arises 1. Examine your heart—ask if pride or fear is driving the dispute (James 4:1). 2. Clarify the issue—distinguish doctrinal essentials from methodological choices (Romans 14:19). 3. Address privately first, then involve others if needed (Matthew 18:15–16). 4. Agree on a path forward—whether reconciliation, compromise, or temporary parting. 5. Keep communication channels open for future unity (Colossians 4:10). Encouragement for Today • Iron sharpens iron; conflict can refine character (Proverbs 27:17). • God’s work is bigger than any one team. Different lanes can still advance the same kingdom. • Love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:8). Aim for peace, stay faithful, and trust God to weave even sharp disagreements into His redemptive plan. |
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