In what ways can we apply Laban's example of blessing to our families? Laban’s Farewell Snapshot “Early the next morning, Laban got up, kissed his grandchildren and daughters, and blessed them. Then he left and returned home.” – Genesis 31:55 Intentionality: Rise Early to Bless • Laban didn’t postpone his blessing; he made it the first order of the new day. • Psalm 92:2 urges us “to proclaim Your loving devotion in the morning.” A daily, scheduled moment of blessing—over breakfast, school drop-off, or a text—sets the spiritual tone for the household. Affection that Communicates Value • Laban “kissed his grandchildren and daughters.” Healthy touch reinforces spoken blessing (Mark 10:16). • Simple practices: hugs before bed, holding hands during prayer, a pat on the back after achievements. Tangible affection roots words of blessing in felt love. Spoken Words that Shape Destiny • He “blessed them,” echoing the patriarchal pattern (Genesis 27:27-29; 48:9-20; Hebrews 11:20). • Blessing script: – Affirm identity (“You are God’s workmanship,” Ephesians 2:10). – Declare future (“The LORD will fulfill His purpose for you,” Psalm 138:8). – Invoke protection (“The LORD bless you and keep you,” Numbers 6:24-26). • Regular, audible blessing counters the world’s negative voices and imprints truth on hearts (Proverbs 18:21). Grandparents: Generational Influence • Laban’s kiss reached two generations. Grandparents possess unique authority to reinforce faith (2 Timothy 1:5). • Ideas: record a blessing video, mail handwritten Scripture promises, host “grand camp” weekends focused on testimony sharing (Psalm 78:4-7). Leaving in Peace after Conflict • Context: Laban and Jacob had strained relations, yet he departs in peace. • Romans 12:18: “If it is possible…live at peace with everyone.” • Before big transitions—college send-offs, military deployment—seek reconciliation, then bless. A peaceful goodbye closes doors to lingering bitterness. Faith Transmission over Sentiment • A blessing is more than warm wishes; it anchors loved ones in God’s covenant faithfulness (Genesis 31:53). • Tie every blessing to God’s promises: “He has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms” (Ephesians 1:3). Families learn that true prosperity flows from relationship with Him (Proverbs 10:22). Practical Starter List for This Week 1. Write each child’s name in a journal; beside it, note a specific Scripture promise to pray aloud daily. 2. Establish a family “blessing benediction” for bedtime or door-way departures (Numbers 6:24-26). 3. Grandparents: call or video-chat grandchildren solely to speak blessing—no agenda, just affirmation. 4. Schedule a reconciliation coffee with any estranged family member; offer forgiveness, then bless. 5. Memorize Genesis 31:55 together to remind everyone why you’re doing this. Result to Expect When affectionate, Scripture-filled blessings become normal, homes mirror the promise of Psalm 103:17: “The loving devotion of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear Him, and His righteousness to their children’s children.” |
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