What practical steps can we take to avoid joining in mockery? Root in the Text “Like godless jesters at a feast, they gnashed at me with their teeth.” (Psalm 35:16) Heart Check: Recognize Mockery for What It Is • Mockery is not harmless humor; Scripture calls its perpetrators “godless.” • Proverbs 14:9 reminds us, “Fools mock at making amends for sin.” To participate is to side with folly, not wisdom. • Start by asking the Holy Spirit to sensitize your conscience so you spot ridicule the moment it forms on your lips or takes root in your heart. Guard Your Speech • Ephesians 4:29: “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up.” • Before speaking, run words through this filter: Will this edify? Will it give grace? If not, stay silent. • Practice a deliberate pause—a two-second breath—before commenting in conversations or online threads. Choose Your Company Wisely • Psalm 1:1 warns against sitting “in the seat of mockers.” • Regularly evaluate friendships, podcasts, and social feeds. If sarcasm and belittling dominate, limit exposure or lovingly challenge the tone. • Proverbs 13:20: “He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.” Fill Your Mouth with Blessing • Romans 12:14: “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.” • Replace the impulse to sneer with spoken encouragement—thank-you notes, texts of appreciation, simple affirmations. • Cultivate a habit of praising others publicly and correcting privately (Matthew 18:15). Practice Active Compassion • Mockery thrives on distance; compassion grows through proximity. • Step toward the person others ridicule—listen, serve, pray for their good (Luke 10:33-35). • When empathy rises, derision fades. Seek Accountability • Invite a trusted believer to flag any sarcastic or cutting remarks you make (James 5:16). • Memorize key verses together—Proverbs 15:1; James 1:19—and remind each other when conversation veers off-course. Let Christ Be Your Example • 1 Peter 2:23: “When He was reviled, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats.” • Follow His pattern: endure mockery without mirroring it, entrusting yourself “to Him who judges justly.” • Pray for the maturity to absorb scorn and respond with truth and love, reflecting the Savior who “committed no sin, and no deceit was found in His mouth.” (1 Peter 2:22) |