How do believers please God per Romans 8:8?
How can believers ensure they "please God" according to Romans 8:8?

What Romans 8:8 Tells Us

• “Those controlled by the flesh cannot please God.”

• God states it plainly—if my life is directed by the flesh (my fallen, sin-nature impulses), pleasing Him is impossible.


Seeing ‘the Flesh’ for What It Is

• The flesh is not merely the physical body; it is the old, self-centered nature inherited from Adam (Romans 5:12).

• It operates through cravings, pride, and independence from God (1 John 2:16).

• Left unchecked, it produces “the works of the flesh” (Galatians 5:19-21), all of which offend God.


The Only Alternative: Life in the Spirit

Romans 8:9—“You, however, are controlled not by the flesh, but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you.”

• New birth (John 3:3-6) places the believer “in Christ,” transferring us from the realm of the flesh to that of the Spirit.

• Pleasing God, then, flows from Spirit-empowered living, not self-improvement projects.


Core Commitments That Keep Us in Step with the Spirit

1. Continuous dependence on Christ

John 15:5—“apart from Me you can do nothing.”

Hebrews 11:6—faith is indispensable; it anchors every act that pleases God.

2. Daily surrender of our bodies and minds

Romans 12:1-2—present your bodies as a living sacrifice; let God renew your mind.

3. Ongoing mortification of sinful desires

Romans 8:13—“if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.”

4. Active obedience to Scripture

John 14:21—love for Christ shows itself in obedience, which He rewards with deeper fellowship.

5. Cultivating the fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22-23—love, joy, peace, and the rest are visible evidence that we are walking in a way that delights God.

6. Fellowship and accountability

Hebrews 10:24-25—believers spur one another on to love and good deeds, keeping one another from drifting back into fleshly patterns.


Everyday Practices that Foster Spirit-Led Living

• Begin each morning inviting the Spirit to rule your thoughts, words, and actions.

• Filter decisions through Scripture before feelings.

• Confess and forsake sin immediately (1 John 1:9) instead of excusing it.

• Memorize key verses that confront recurring fleshly tendencies.

• Serve others intentionally; self-giving love starves selfish desires (Philippians 2:3-4).

• Keep short accounts—reconcile quickly, forgive freely (Ephesians 4:31-32).

• End each day with thanksgiving, acknowledging where God’s Spirit enabled victory.


The Outcome God Desires

Colossians 1:10—“walk in a manner worthy of the Lord and may please Him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God.”

• When the Spirit guides and empowers, our lives move from impossible (flesh) to pleasing (Spirit), bringing joy to the Father and assurance to our hearts.

What does Romans 8:8 reveal about living 'in the flesh' versus 'in the Spirit'?
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