How to adopt a servant's heart in repentance?
In what ways can we apply the servant's attitude in our daily repentance?

Setting the Scene

“ ‘Have patience with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ ” (Matthew 18:26)

Jesus places this cry of a desperate servant at the heart of His parable. The king’s reply (vv. 27–35) shows that genuine mercy flows from God, yet the servant’s posture teaches us how to approach daily repentance.


Humble Awareness of Debt

• The servant “fell on his knees.” Kneeling points to full acknowledgment that he owes more than he can repay.

• Daily repentance begins by admitting our sin without excuse. (Psalm 51:3–4; 1 John 1:9)

• Practical step: Start each day with a brief examination of the past twenty-four hours, naming specific sins before God.


Immediate Submission to the Master

• He comes straight to the king, not to other servants.

• Repentance is first a vertical matter: run to God before trying to fix horizontal consequences. (Psalm 32:5)

• Practical step: When conviction strikes, pause immediately—wherever you are—and address the Lord in quiet confession.


Pleading for Mercy, Not Entitlement

• “Have patience with me” shows he seeks grace, not negotiation.

• True repentance appeals to God’s compassion, not personal merit. (Luke 18:13; Titus 3:5)

• Practical step: Replace self-defense phrases (“I was tired,” “I had no choice”) with a simple, “Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner.”


Commitment to Restoration

• “I will pay back everything” reflects intent to make things right, even if impossible alone.

• Repentance involves tangible fruit—restitution, apologies, changed behavior. (Acts 26:20; Luke 19:8)

• Practical step: List anyone harmed by your sin. Plan specific actions to repair trust.


Confidence in the Master’s Compassion

• Though his promise could never cover the debt, the servant still approaches, trusting the king’s patience.

• Faith believes God delights to forgive because of Christ’s finished work. (Micah 7:18–19; Hebrews 4:16)

• Practical step: After confessing, thank God aloud for His promised cleansing—do not linger in shame He has lifted.


Ongoing Posture of Gratitude and Mercy

• The wider parable warns against receiving mercy yet withholding it from others.

• Daily repentance keeps us tender toward fellow sinners. (Ephesians 4:32; Matthew 6:14–15)

• Practical step: Each time you confess sin, ask God to show you someone to forgive or serve that day.


Putting It All Together

Humble awareness, immediate submission, plea for mercy, commitment to restoration, confident trust, and merciful overflow—these six facets mirror the servant’s attitude and shape a lifestyle of heartfelt, daily repentance before our gracious King.

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