How can we support our leaders when they face trials like David's? The Tears at the Brook Kidron “Then the whole countryside wept aloud as all the people passed by; and the king crossed the Kidron Valley, and all the people moved on toward the wilderness.” (2 Samuel 15:23) David’s loyal followers walked with him, sharing his grief and refusing to leave his side. Their example lays a pattern for how we can uphold leaders in seasons of deep testing. Biblical Foundations for Standing with Leaders • Scripture records David’s flight as real history, revealing timeless principles for God’s people. • 1 Timothy 2:1-2 urges intercession for “all who are in authority,” binding us to active support, not passive concern. • Hebrews 13:7, 17 reminds believers to imitate the faith of leaders and make their work “a joy, not a burden.” Practical Ways to Support When Trials Strike • Share the weight openly – “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15) – Presence mattered at Kidron; it still does. Attend the hard meetings, show up at the hospital, sit in the living room. • Declare unwavering loyalty in righteousness – Ittai the Gittite told David, “Wherever my lord the king may be… there your servant will be.” (2 Samuel 15:21) – Verbally affirm commitment to stay even if outcomes are uncertain. • Provide tangible help – Barzillai brought “beds, basins… wheat, barley… sheep, and cheese” when David reached Mahanaim (2 Samuel 17:27-29). – Modern parallels: meals, childcare, transportation, administrative aid, financial gifts (Philippians 4:14-16). • Strengthen through intercessory prayer – David asked, “O LORD, turn Ahithophel’s counsel into foolishness!” (2 Samuel 15:31). God answered through Hushai. – Persistent prayer aligns us with divine intervention (James 5:16). • Offer wise, discreet counsel – Hushai served inside Absalom’s camp to thwart evil plans (2 Samuel 17:14). – Speak truth kindly; protect leaders from despair and poor decisions (Proverbs 27:9). • Guard unity and resist gossip – Absalom stole hearts by whispering (2 Samuel 15:1-6). Close the ear to murmurs; address concerns biblically (Ephesians 4:29). Why Our Support Matters • It validates God’s appointment of leaders (Romans 13:1). • It stabilizes the wider community, preventing scatter and discouragement. • It displays Christlike love, modeling the Shepherd who “lays down His life for the sheep” (John 10:11). Trusting God’s Sovereign Outcome • “The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still.” (Exodus 14:14) • Whether God returns leaders to the throne (as He did David, 2 Samuel 19:11-12) or redirects their path, our role remains steadfast support coupled with unwavering confidence that “the king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the LORD; He directs it wherever He pleases.” (Proverbs 21:1) |