How to aid leaders in tough times?
How can we support our leaders when they face trials like David's?

The Tears at the Brook Kidron

“Then the whole countryside wept aloud as all the people passed by; and the king crossed the Kidron Valley, and all the people moved on toward the wilderness.” (2 Samuel 15:23)

David’s loyal followers walked with him, sharing his grief and refusing to leave his side. Their example lays a pattern for how we can uphold leaders in seasons of deep testing.


Biblical Foundations for Standing with Leaders

• Scripture records David’s flight as real history, revealing timeless principles for God’s people.

1 Timothy 2:1-2 urges intercession for “all who are in authority,” binding us to active support, not passive concern.

Hebrews 13:7, 17 reminds believers to imitate the faith of leaders and make their work “a joy, not a burden.”


Practical Ways to Support When Trials Strike

• Share the weight openly

– “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15)

– Presence mattered at Kidron; it still does. Attend the hard meetings, show up at the hospital, sit in the living room.

• Declare unwavering loyalty in righteousness

– Ittai the Gittite told David, “Wherever my lord the king may be… there your servant will be.” (2 Samuel 15:21)

– Verbally affirm commitment to stay even if outcomes are uncertain.

• Provide tangible help

– Barzillai brought “beds, basins… wheat, barley… sheep, and cheese” when David reached Mahanaim (2 Samuel 17:27-29).

– Modern parallels: meals, childcare, transportation, administrative aid, financial gifts (Philippians 4:14-16).

• Strengthen through intercessory prayer

– David asked, “O LORD, turn Ahithophel’s counsel into foolishness!” (2 Samuel 15:31). God answered through Hushai.

– Persistent prayer aligns us with divine intervention (James 5:16).

• Offer wise, discreet counsel

– Hushai served inside Absalom’s camp to thwart evil plans (2 Samuel 17:14).

– Speak truth kindly; protect leaders from despair and poor decisions (Proverbs 27:9).

• Guard unity and resist gossip

– Absalom stole hearts by whispering (2 Samuel 15:1-6). Close the ear to murmurs; address concerns biblically (Ephesians 4:29).


Why Our Support Matters

• It validates God’s appointment of leaders (Romans 13:1).

• It stabilizes the wider community, preventing scatter and discouragement.

• It displays Christlike love, modeling the Shepherd who “lays down His life for the sheep” (John 10:11).


Trusting God’s Sovereign Outcome

• “The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still.” (Exodus 14:14)

• Whether God returns leaders to the throne (as He did David, 2 Samuel 19:11-12) or redirects their path, our role remains steadfast support coupled with unwavering confidence that “the king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the LORD; He directs it wherever He pleases.” (Proverbs 21:1)

Compare David's journey in 2 Samuel 15:23 with Jesus' in John 18:1.
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