What steps can we take to ensure fairness when resolving conflicts today? The Heart of the Passage “the two people involved in the dispute must stand in the presence of the LORD, before the priests and judges who are in office at that time.” Deuteronomy 19:17 Step One: Bring the Dispute Into the Light • Stand “in the presence of the LORD.” Hiding breeds partiality; openness invites truth (John 3:20–21). • Refuse secret gossip; insist on face-to-face conversation (Matthew 18:15). Step Two: Listen to Both Sides Thoroughly • Both parties “must stand” before the same audience; neither is silenced. • “The first to plead his case seems right, until another comes and examines him.” Proverbs 18:17. • Quick listening, slow speaking, slow anger (James 1:19–20) protects fairness. Step Three: Submit to God-Given Authority • Priests and judges represent divinely appointed structure (Romans 13:1). • In church matters, wise believers can fill this role (1 Corinthians 6:1–5). • Recognizing authority prevents chaos and personal vendettas. Step Four: Verify Facts Carefully • The next verse reinforces investigation: “The judges shall make a thorough inquiry” (Deuteronomy 19:18). • Require “two or three witnesses” (Deuteronomy 19:15; 2 Corinthians 13:1). • Document evidence; avoid decisions based on emotion alone. Step Five: Apply Equal Standards • “You shall do no injustice in judgment; you shall not show partiality” Leviticus 19:15. • Same rules for friend or foe, rich or poor (James 2:1–4). • Fairness collapses when favoritism enters the room. Step Six: Confront and Remove False Testimony • If a witness lies, “you must do to him as he intended to do to his brother” (Deuteronomy 19:19). • Truth-telling is so vital that God deters perjury with strong consequences (Proverbs 19:5). • Today: correct misinformation promptly and transparently. Step Seven: Pursue Restoration, Not Revenge • After justice, aim for peace: “If possible, as far as it depends on you, live in peace with everyone” Romans 12:18. • Leave vengeance to God (Romans 12:19); seek reconciliation (Matthew 5:23–24). Practical Takeaways for Today • Schedule a face-to-face meeting with all involved, inviting a neutral, respected believer. • Pray together before discussions begin, acknowledging God’s presence. • Gather and review all evidence—documents, messages, witnesses—before forming conclusions. • Speak truthfully and courteously; interrupt only to clarify. • Test every claim with Scripture’s call for honesty and impartiality. • If deception surfaces, address it immediately and, if necessary, involve appropriate authority. • Close with a clear decision, communicated to all parties, and practical steps toward restored fellowship. |
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