How can we discern God's will when facing challenging life decisions today? Jeremiah’s Life-Changing Command “You are not to marry or have sons or daughters in this place.” (Jeremiah 16:2) • God steps into Jeremiah’s personal life and says no to marriage and children. • The directive is crystal-clear, specific, and counter-cultural. • It reminds us that discerning God’s will often involves hearing something unexpected—and obeying even when it cuts across our preferences. Lessons From Jeremiah 16:2 for Our Decisions • God’s will is not abstract; He speaks to particular situations. • Obedience may require surrendering good, legitimate desires when they conflict with His timing or greater plan. • What looks restrictive at first is actually protective; God spared Jeremiah the pain that was coming on Judah (16:3-4). Foundational Attitudes That Position Us to Hear • Trust over logic — “Trust in the LORD with all your heart… and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6) • Whole-life surrender — Offer yourself as “a living sacrifice… Then you will be able to discern… the perfect will of God.” (Romans 12:1-2) • Childlike dependence — “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God… and it will be given to him.” (James 1:5) Practical Steps to Discern God’s Will Today 1. Immerse yourself in Scripture – God’s voice in His Word shapes your thinking so you recognize His whispers elsewhere. 2. Seek the Spirit’s inner witness – “My sheep listen to My voice.” (John 10:27) Expect the Spirit to nudge, warn, or confirm. 3. Evaluate circumstances – Doors God opens align with His character; closed doors may be merciful redirections. 4. Consult wise, godly counsel – Mature believers help test impressions against Scripture and sound judgment. 5. Watch for persistent peace or unrest – The Spirit’s peace “rules” (literally, umpires) in our hearts, guarding us from rash steps (Colossians 3:15). 6. Move forward in faith – Once clarity comes, obey promptly—Jeremiah did not delay. Red Flags: What God’s Will Never Contradicts • Clear biblical commands (Psalm 19:7-8) • Holiness and integrity (1 Peter 1:15-16) • Love for God and neighbor (Matthew 22:37-39) Encouragement for the Journey “The LORD says, ‘I will instruct you and teach you the way you should go; I will give you counsel and watch over you.’” (Psalm 32:8) God delights to guide His children. Stay in His Word, keep your heart yielded, and, like Jeremiah, you’ll discover that His will—though sometimes surprising—is always wise, protective, and good. |
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