How can we apply Paul's example of seeking God's will in our struggles? Facing Real Struggles Together “Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me.” —2 Corinthians 12:8 Paul knew agony, asked boldly, and still bowed to God’s decision. His pattern shows us how to seek God’s will when life hurts. Paul’s Pattern: Pray, Wait, Surrender • Pray honestly. Paul “pleaded,” holding nothing back. – Psalm 62:8: “Pour out your hearts before Him.” • Pray persistently. Three distinct seasons of asking; he didn’t quit at the first “no.” – Luke 18:1: “They should always pray and not lose heart.” • Wait for the Lord’s reply. God’s answer came in verse 9, not verse 8. – Psalm 27:14: “Wait for the LORD; be strong… and wait.” • Surrender when He speaks. Paul accepted “My grace is sufficient for you.” – Luke 22:42: Jesus modeled, “Yet not My will, but Yours be done.” Why God’s “No” Can Still Be Love • Protection: The thorn kept Paul from conceit (v. 7). • Dependence: Weakness magnifies Christ’s power (v. 9). • Testimony: Suffering becomes a platform to showcase grace (v. 10). • Preparation: Present trials shape eternal reward (2 Corinthians 4:17). How We Can Imitate Paul Today 1. Name the struggle. Bring it to the Lord specifically. 2. Schedule seasons of concentrated prayer; don’t assume one quick request settles it. 3. Search Scripture while waiting; God’s answer often arrives through His Word. 4. Record what you sense He’s saying; revisit it when emotions flare. 5. Embrace God’s decision, whether relief or endurance, trusting His character. 6. Share the story. Your weakness plus His strength encourages others (Philippians 1:14). Attitudes That Keep Us Aligned with God’s Will • Humility —James 4:6–7 • Thankfulness —1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 • Hope —Romans 8:28 • Joy in weakness —2 Corinthians 12:10 Scriptures to Keep Close • Philippians 4:6–7: trade anxiety for peace. • 1 Peter 5:6–7: cast every care on Him. • Romans 12:1–2: a renewed mind discerns God’s will. • 2 Timothy 4:17: “The Lord stood by me and gave me strength.” Paul’s life proves that unanswered requests are never wasted; they redirect us to the sufficiency of Christ. Follow his lead: plead, listen, yield—and discover strength made perfect in weakness. |