In what ways can we "acquire wise counsel" from fellow believers today? Foundation Verse Proverbs 15:22: “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” The Need for Wise Counsel • God designed the body of Christ so “each part works to build itself up in love” (Ephesians 4:16). • Our limited perspective is balanced by “the whole counsel of God” (Acts 20:27) shared through trusted believers. • Wise counsel protects us from self–deception (Jeremiah 17:9) and positions us to walk in God’s will. Practical Ways to Seek Counsel Today • Regular, face-to-face conversation with mature believers—over coffee, in small groups, or during ministry projects. • Scheduled mentoring: meet monthly with an older brother or sister in Christ to review decisions and spiritual growth. • Local church elders and pastors: approach them for prayer, biblical input, and accountability (Hebrews 13:17). • Married couples can invite another godly couple to speak into finances, parenting, and marriage dynamics. • Serve on ministry teams; joint problem-solving naturally opens doors for mutual counsel (Philippians 2:2). • Christian counseling that submits to Scripture, integrating professional skill with biblical truth. • Online or phone fellowship when distance limits in-person contact—using video calls, group chats, or accountability apps, while guarding discernment. • Conferences, workshops, and retreats led by biblically sound teachers, followed by conversation that personalizes application. Qualities of Godly Counselors • Reverence for God’s Word—“The testimony of the LORD is trustworthy, making wise the simple” (Psalm 19:7). • Proven character and fruit (Matthew 7:16). • Humility that points to Christ, not self (1 Peter 5:5). • Courage to speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). • Confidentiality—able to keep matters private unless safety or sin demands disclosure (Proverbs 11:13). • Prayerfulness, seeking guidance from the Holy Spirit (John 16:13). Safeguards When Receiving Counsel • Test everything against Scripture (Acts 17:11). • Invite multiple voices; “in an abundance of counselors there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14). • Watch for peace from God, not pressure from people (Colossians 3:15). • Avoid echo chambers; welcome constructive challenge (Proverbs 27:6). • Be ready to obey once clarity comes—double-mindedness hinders wisdom (James 1:5-8). Blessings That Follow • Smoother paths—“He guides the humble in what is right” (Psalm 25:9). • Protection from costly missteps, as Rehoboam learned by rejecting the elders’ advice (1 Kings 12:6-19). • Strengthened fellowship; iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). • Growth in discernment, cultivating future counselors for the next generation (2 Timothy 2:2). |
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